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Everyday look into your mirror and write everything you like about yourself, and everyday try and add a new thing to the list. :) It helps
You can work on your self-esteem :) Some smart person always says if you google self-esteem and read all that you can on building your own for long enough, and constantly think about improving your self-esteem, it is likely to get better.
If you contemplate and dwell about the idea and theme of attraction, visualizing what it means to be attractive, feeling how it felt if you ever felt attractive, then by the law of attraction you will attract attractivity into your life and self.
ya that self esteem, lost that or never had it
Get a hair cut, styled by a professional
Do you mean physically attractive? Or personality attractive?
wear what makes you feel good, maybe wear your hair the way you like, and this will make you feel more comfortable and maybe even boost your self esteem. This is key to feeling better in all aspects. Being attractive is not everything either, its what is inside that counts and means everything. If you shine on the inside, you will definitely shine on the outside. Also, self confidence is key also. Believe in yourself and who you are. Find qualities about yourself that you love and focus on those. These aspects make who you are and no one is perfect, so dont try to make yourself that way. Love your flaws as things that make you unique.
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)
this is a kind of weird method but sometimes it works. okay, it’s not that weird.
Stand in the mirror and get a good, good look at yourself. Pull your hair out of your way if you have to, if your a girl I mean. Or if you just have long hair.
Look at yourself for more than just a moment. Because sometimes we will glance at the mirror, and expect to see ourselves looking ugly or worse than we really are, and in that small moment we zero in or focus on our worst attributes and are blind to how we actually look as a whole.
So look hard. Look at yourself until you come to a conclusion. Try not to make any sort of expression.
You may come to the conclusion you are not attractive, ugly, or not good enough.
I do, sometimes. Most of the time. 94 percent.
Tell yourself that you are fine. Tell yourself that you are decent. Tell yourself that you are beautiful. Tell yourself whatever it is you want to say. Tell yourself you are katy freaking perry.
Now that you are fine, decent and beautiful, you will notice that you changed in the mirror from the time you started looking at yourself.
You might notice that it’s your perspective taking away your vision rather than the actual face you see in the mirror.
My method may sound silly…but it works sometimes for me. And if that doesn’t work, maybe a small work out, haircut, and new shirt/jeans will help?
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 44 minutes after post)
how to feel more attractive(easy tips to be attractive):
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