life help: i am a talkative person and i think this habit pushes people - Help.com

What’s wrong with being talkative? As long as you don’t dominate every conversation with everyone you talk to then it shouldn’t be an issue :)

Exact thing happened to me, actually one guy once told me “geez stop talking, youre so annoying!”. So yes, I was also pushing people away until I figured what the problem was and changed my behavior.

You know what the problem with talkative people is? Usually they talk about themselves or their opinions, or have something to say about everything and that is boring to the other person. So I stopped doing that, reminding myself all the time to LISTEN instead of talking. Then, I ask something about what the other person is saying, and of course I also give my opinion but on a normal dose and its been working great for years since I’ve only gaining friends.

I hope you’ll come to feel comfortable with who you are and just be who you are. Being the real you will draw the right people to you and remember you can’t please everyone. I’m a quieter person and I actually like someone who talks bit more than me :) as long as I get to express myself too in the conversation, it’s all good. You know Taoism says that we should just be and that means we forget ourselves (not to examine ourselves) and everything will flow.

i never thought being a talkative person is an issue , but when that guy i like said that i’m a talkative person . i don’t know why but it made me feel kinda sad !