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I feel like I have no personality

Hi everyone I have a few things I need to talk about. I have been feeling very angry recently and I really hate being angry and upset all the time. I feel like I have no personality between my siblings, I have two older sisters that are twins but are very night and day as far as personality and apperence etc. I have been finding recently that whenever I try talking about my interests one of them always knows what I am talking about or they look it up and make it their own etc. It’s really been bugging me and has made me very angry at them. It sounds selfish sorry… I get angry if my sisters try interrupting or coming in the room when I am watching TV or somthing because I feel that TV is the only thing I have left. I used to really love graphic novels and one of my sisters really got into them so I gave them up, gave her all my books when she was struggling with finding what made her, her. I just really get angry when I will show them something like that and then they will go later and look it up and then talk to other people about it like they know everything about it. I don’t feel like I am a person or that anything makes me special. It could be just the fact that I’m just frustrated about not being able to connect with people that well or maybe it’s just me being stupid. Whenever I gain friends I just lose them because they always find someone more interesting than me. It’s like they like me for a short period of time then they just upgrade to a 2.0 version of me. I just don’t know what to do anymore, I hate feeling like this. Sometimes I want to be alone with no one around me, I get really angry now, way more than I used to be. When I’m alone I am always wishing I had friends. Can someone help me I know I am jumping around a lot in this post but I’m such a mess.

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Savanna_ offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Hmm hmm, ever tried talking to them about it instead of being angry and hurt and sad without them knowing?

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9 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I’m not sure how ,even if I wanted to, I don’t want to sound like a complete annoyance. Who am I to tell them what they can or can’t like? I don’t know, I’m not good at talking to people in general not to mention talking about feelings etc.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

You just wrote this long paragraph, I’m sure you know how. Tell them what you wrote here..You want to have this one thing that is special to you.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 24 minutes after post)

why not share your interest with them? instead of trying to have something yourself.

or dont share and next time your talking to someone with your sisters their, start telling them something about your new hobby that they didnt know about.

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