boyfriend help: Judgement-Free zone: 3some.

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Judgement-Free zone: 3some.

Before I get started, I am in a committed relationship and I love my boyfriend a lot. I have always wanted a threesome. He is not my first, or second by any means, but I definitely see him being my last. As the beginning of our relationship he was opposed to a threesome. Recently we talked about it more and I think me talking about it has built a curiosity in him. I have always want to, but I am not sure if I want to with my boyfriend. By NO means do I want to cheat. My concern are: What if he is more turned on by the girl than me? What if he touches her and I freak out? What would the after affects be… would it ruin our relationship? Or on the flip side maybe it won’t be a big deal at all, maybe it will just be fun and that’s that. I already know I will like it because, in college, I had my girl on girl experience. I don’t want it to become something that we do frequently, in fact I am not sure if we would do it more than once, but I know if we liked it, I am sure it would make it easy to do it again. Can anyone share helpful insight? Advice? Testimonials?

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Dr. Ozy 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

i’ve never been involved in a threesome, but i’ve always heard that it gets tricky. something like that involves a lot of trust between partners. as with suggesting anything new in bed, all you can do is bring up the idea and see if your partner is interested or curious. i wouldn’t bring it up too often, though, if he seems reluctant.

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The Sherlockian 39 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

My organizational psychology professor used to say, “I love groups of three–it’s the smallest number of people in which you can have a conspiracy.”

And, yes, there’s a better than even chance that your boyfriend will like the other girl better than you. And you can bet your last dollar that he will be thinking of her all the time. Pretty soon he’ll call her up, and pretty soon the threesome will be a twosome, and you’ll be the odd girl out.

If you want to play with fire, go right ahead. Hope you like conspiracies!

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Siren 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 25 minutes after post)

personally for me if i was going to do something like that, id want to be single and not know the other 2 very well. things can get complicated and thrown back in the others face in an argument etc. just my pov

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Angie. 190 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Do you really love this guy so much your prepared to lose him?
I’ve known a few people who participated in threesomes.
Some of them are with diffent partners or going through trial seperations.
Is a quick fumble in the sack really worth putting your relationship on the line?
Tread carefully,bites turn leave horrible wounds.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Evansent.:) wrote:
Do you really love this guy so much your prepared to lose him?
I’ve known a few people who participated in threesomes.
Some of them are with diffent partners or going through trial seperations.
Is a quick fumble in the sack really worth putting your relationship on the line?
Tread carefully,bites turn leave horrible wounds.

*bites can leave horrible wounds*

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