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How do you stop being needing and attracting people who treat you badly?
I’ve been this way my whole life and I know I scare normal healthy people off with my issues and my clinginess.
But I don’t know how not to be clingy. They say you need to open up to your friends but what if I don’t have a single one I feel I can dump my problems on so often that it would actually make me feel better? That means I need a therapist I suppose? But they don’t really help that much. Maybe misery is habit for me, but how do I get out of it? And how do I get more positive people in my life if if I cut all the negative ones out then I’ll have no one because I’m not at the point that positive people want anything to do with me yet.
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