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I’m just not good enough and I never will be.

There will always be someone better that comes along in his life. I feel like this guy…supposedly my friend hangs out with me but then the minute he sees something else I’m completely forgotten about. We don’t talk at all. But then if he needs something he comes back to me. I’ve gotten to the point where I’m not helping him out any more and if he asks me for help with something I’m gonna tell him to find someone else.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

If you continue to rely on others for your sense of worth, you will never feel good enough, but you can realize right now that you are, all by yourself, without anyone, just absolutely great. Good enough for yourself, good enough for anyone. Whenever you’re ready, that epiphany and a happier existence is waiting for you :)

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

good for you. don’t let your self worth depend on what others say/do/etc.

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lnfunlife offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Very good.Don’t depend on someone else for knowing what you can do & what not.Just be yourself/You will never feel good if you compare yourself with someone else.You must be on your own.Be self-dependent,self-confident.You’ll find yourself much better than others.And never ever think “I’m just not good enough and I never will be”.It is never right.And yes, helping ungrateful persons yields nothing in this world but if you believe in after-life then it works in after-life.So,it’s on you.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

verge wrote:
If you continue to rely on others for your sense of worth, you will never feel good enough, but you can realize right now that you are, all by yourself, without anyone, just absolutely great. Good enough for yourself, good enough for anyone. Whenever you’re ready, that epiphany and a happier existence is waiting for you :)

So beautiful.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

Thanks!

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 58 minutes after post)

verge wrote:
Thanks!

Have you ever considered being a poet, or a writer?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours after post)

that summer feeling wrote:

verge wrote:
Thanks!

Have you ever considered being a poet, or a writer?

When I was little I thought about it lol.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

verge wrote:

that summer feeling wrote:
verge wrote:
Thanks!

Have you ever considered being a poet, or a writer?

When I was little I thought about it lol.

Well I don’t want to tell you how to live your life, but I think you would do amazing in that career path lol. I enjoy reading what you write. Your replies I mean.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Wow thanks a lot :) That’s very kind of you.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

Stop being there when he needs you. He’ll either become your friend or stop hanging around altogether. Then you’ll be free to find someone better.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 29 minutes after post)

verge wrote:
Wow thanks a lot :) That’s very kind of you.

Anytime, I love giving credit where it is due :)

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