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i need help [Urgent]…

Ok i will start by saying i have quite a few problems, I have low to no self esteem, i am self conscious about everything and i extremely shy, ok now the story on whats going on.

OK there is this girl and i like her a lot, now she recently told me she was engaged and she is a lesbian, she just randomly brings these things up so i don’t know if she is serious or not, now since she has told me all of this i have been thinking my life is worthless and contemplating suicide, but only while talking to her, i don’t know what to do as she has stopped talking to me and i am still contemplating it.

Why must i feel this way about her, and knowing she isn’t interested in me, why cant i get over her? and now she is starting to change, she has become very offensive, constantly swearing at me and telling me she doesn’t care, while i support everything she does. Even though she treats me so bad i still like her, is there something wrong with me or is it something else?…

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Hazel_LeSquirrel offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Hey, take some time to chill out, if you meditate or have anything that relaxes you, walking, music etc, then do that, clear your mind :)
it sounds like things arent gonna work out with you two, youll let go eventually, and i know it can be hard letting go while youre still trying to be there for someone, but maybe give yourself a few days to adjust? :)

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

its funny that, i have given myself 2 weeks, its just every time i talk to her, i get depressed…

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Blest offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Sounds to me like you’re too good for her. You really shouldn’t worry so much about whether or not people love you in return. If they do, then that’s great. If not, then who cares?

You are a magnificent person just for being the kind of person that will treat somebody with love and respect, even when they treat you badly. It doesn’t make you a chump, or a fool. It makes you a godly and righteous person.

Don’t ever think about suicide again. It’s not an option, and it wouldn’t solve anything. All it would do is rob some lucky person in the future from being with you, and knowing your love.

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Hazel_LeSquirrel offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Awh I’m sorry :/
I agree with Blest :)
please dont hurt yourself, it hurts the people around you just as much :/

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone, and you are right, i am too good for her

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Hazel_LeSquirrel offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

:) xx

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mintra offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Increase your options, of courde you feel bad about her , but there are choices.

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 19 minutes after post)

what sort of choices?

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