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what would you do?

i’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a month. he’s out tonight, and i was in the same town, but with other friends and i didn’t drive so i had to leave with them. he wants me to come back out. i want to see him, but i also don’t want to seem too easy. should i just go? or save it for another time? it’s about a 20 minute drive..

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

if you want to go, then go! if you don’t want to seem too easy, then don’t go. which do you want more?
will he think you are too easy? I mean, do you really give him that impression? surely he won’t think that by you just wanting to spend time with him.

I think you should do whatever you think is best, actually.

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

just ask to make it another night
you have to go home with your drivers

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Too easy? Is there such a thing? If you go to see him it means you like him a lot. It does not mean you would do it for any guy you meet. Let him know that. Make him feel special. I always liked it a lot when a girl did things for me that she would not do for other guys. I mean we talk, we know what you do when you are with other guys. If you are too easy you are too easy, it has nothing to do with whether you go see the guy tonight.

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nolateri offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

You have been seeing him so what is the big deal?

I would go if I liked him and wanted to see him!

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9 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

im tired though…i want to see him but I’m so tired!

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
im tired though…i want to see him but I’m so tired!

Just say that. be honest

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Tu2eZ…

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

This may or may not matter.

I was seeing a guy a few months ago. We had about three or four dates, and I rode to this town with my friend where he lived and me and my friend went to the movies. my car was in another city and he offered to pick me up from the movies and take me to my car, because he wanted to see me that night. I declined, saying it was too far for him to drive me, and it really hurt his feelings because he had already offered and it didn’t matter how far it was to him. he felt as if I just didn’t want to see him, although I swore it was just because of the distance. after that, he kind of went in and out of the relationship and I think if I had let him take me home that night, things might of been different. then again, nothing is certain.
I’m just saying, you might not get this chance again.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
im tired though…i want to see him but I’m so tired!

I’d go to sleep unless I though he was awesome.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

verge wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
im tired though…i want to see him but I’m so tired!

I’d go to sleep unless I though he was awesome.

I agree.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

I mean, you can sleep any night. How many awesome guys can you hang out with tonight that are wanting to hang out with you too?

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