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Should i tell her i love her?

Heres the deal, I dated my ex back in december for a month, and then we broke up. We kept in touch through text and phone for the next few months. Three weeks ago she drunk dials me, and says she misses me and “loves” me(shes never told me that before). Since then we’ve been kinda working things out. Whenever shes over, i feel like she wants me to tell her I love her….do i feel that way? Probably yes. I just dont want to rush into it. I feel like little time has passed by, and if its only been 3 weeks I dont think its true love. any advice?

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Anonymous #
9 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

NO, never tell a girl you Love anything.

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Dr. Jackson offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t, I’d wait till not only that you feel it, but that she feels it too when she’s not drunk. Otherwise your grasping at straws.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

If you don’t love her, don’t lie. And remember, an ex is an ex for a reason.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
NO, never tell a girl you Love anything.

That’s silly. My guy told me he loves bacon and now I make him bacon sandwiches all the time.

Honesty is the best policy.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

no,never tell a girl you love her…girls are waiting 4 hearing this sentence”i love you”

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

You are right, it’s not true love. You will know exactly when true love finds you and you found her, and you won’t have to come here to ask strangers online about it.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 21 minutes after post)

If drunk, not love. :\

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