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Ok I’m male 24, I’ve had… let’s say a few girlfriends, and most of them have said I am amazing in bed and all this crap (no I’m not bragging) but they have all said that they want to have kids with me…well I say all of them I’ve had 4 long term girlfriends and they have all said this to me! I’ve started seeing this girl for about 4 month now and she has also said this to me!

Now being me I’ve heard it all before so I don’t really believe it when people tell me this but I was wondering has anyone else of my age or can anyone shed some light onto why they keep saying this to me? Its starting to play on my mind a lot and I cant figure out why they say this to me! I never talk about having kids or getting married or anything like that I just take each day as it comes sort of speak, never plan my life!!

Any help?????

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nolateri 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

It sounds like the girls are seeing a good quality in you that would make you a good spouse to have a family with. This is a real compliment.

I couldn’t imagine these girls are all just saying these things they must mean it! And if you have been told by several girls the same thing then again take it as a compliment. You must have good quality’s about yourself that girls are attracted to once they end up dating you!

As for being a good lover that is obviously how they feel or they would not tell you this!

These are all good things and don’t know why this would be playing with your mind!

At least they are not calling you a jerk or lousy lover!

I have told guy’s the same things but only because they were true!

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Ok thanks! It plays on my mind because I tend not to trust people when they give me compliments! It just freaked me out a bit because a few people have Said these things to me! I just thought it might of been a common thing you girls tell guys to make them feel special! Getten a. Women’s perspective on this is good!

Thanks

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

That makes sense…will you got one girls perspective! I would never tell a guy those two things unless I sincerely felt that way!

You must be a really good guy! Just make sure you pick the right girl to have a family with! Use protection until you know. Some girls will deliberatly try to get pregnant from a guy they would want to have kids with! So be safe in that area!

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 29 minutes after post)

lol a guy said this to me when we were in bed once, it freaked me out coz we’d only been together a month or so and he said i should move in and started rubbing my tummy and mentioning kids.

i for one have never said it to a guy, and i wouldnt unless i meant it. accept compliments graciously :)

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