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i have a problem…

my friend has a bf… and the problem is, i like him alot… and he has a plan that when they break up hell go to me… i dont want her heart broken, but i like him alot… i dont know what to do… god i hate this… please help

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lost jazz offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I recommend against that ive lost friends cuzz of this and they did it to me too

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Do not betray your friends.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

i dont wanna betray them, just i dont know what i would do if right after they broke up he came to me

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

If he is making plans with you behind his girlfriend’s back, he isn’t a good guy to be with. That is pretty much for certain.

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lost jazz offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

I agree if hes doing that to his gf what dio u think hes gonna do to u

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

It’s a power trip for this guy. Trust me on this. He wants to see if he has the “wow power” to destroy a friendship! This scheme is as old as the hills. Don’t even consider going out with a guy who screwed over your best friend!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

she knows… she told me… hes real nice to her, doesnt flirt with me, but he said that after he broke up with her….

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

thank you guys so much

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 43 minutes after post)

He IS flirting with you!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 50 minutes after post)

well… yeah

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