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I have a friend that is very crazy and buggy.

She’ll try to be the boss of me. She’ll act like she’s the birthday girl at another friend’s party. Whenever I stand up to her, she just brings me right back down again. Should I stick with her or forget her?

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♥ Fairytale ♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

well…you should be more Patient and try to Convinced her that you are not forced to do anything she order…
if you are a girl too,you should treat with her just like herself…friends are valuable,don’t miss them.
if you’re a guy,you should enjoy that she orders you!!!
isn’t she your mom?

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The Cheshire Cat offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Thanks for the advise. I’m a girl. She is not my mom.

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MarlinTheFish offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

some people are like that. I call them “crazy makers”. they seem to find a way to make the situation be about them and attract attention to themselves. they can be very manipulative and charismatic. I don’t think they always do these things on purpose, but it can seem that way. at any rate, I do not enjoy it and so I never become too close to these people. but if you don’t enjoy her company, then it sort defeats the purpose of being friends, right?

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MarlinTheFish offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

*Fairytale* wrote:
if you’re a guy, you should enjoy that she orders you!!!

lol. most people only enjoy being told what to do, when they want to be told. for example, if my lover tells me to take off my pants… I happily obey. but if she tells me to do the dishes when it is her turn to do them, then I may not be so happy about it.

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♥ Fairytale ♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

MarlinTheFish wrote:

*Fairytale* wrote:
if you’re a guy, you should enjoy that she orders you!!!

lol. most people only enjoy being told what to do, when they want to be told. for example, if my lover tells me to take off my pants… I happily obey. but if she tells me to do the dishes when it is her turn to do them, then I may not be so happy about it.

i mean love relations not roommate relations…if a roommate tells you “wash the dishes ” i won’t obey but if my GF tells me ” wash dishes ” i’ll say–> OK honey!

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trentlover20 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 30 minutes after post)

I personally can’t stand people like that because I had a friend like that, very bossy always kind of putting me down in weird little ways and making me feel like an idiot we drifted apart once I left secondary school thank **** lol. just talk to her and calmly and politely tell her how she’s making you feel

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 1 minute after post)

If she makes your life more unpleasant than pleasant, don’t hang around her.

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