friends help: I’m annoyed at my two friends.

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I’m annoyed at my two friends.

They’re great and all, but whenever I’m not on facebook or available they send me messages where are you that you disappeared? Wanting to talk to me or whatever. That’s fine, I don’t mind at all, but when I have done that they get annoyed and say things like, ” my time doesn’t belong to you.” Why is it okay for them to say that to me and for me not to? I don’t do it very often, in fact, they do it way more than me, but it’s just a little annoying. Advice?

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Space Weaver 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

yeah!!! some rules are different for some people.

that’s just like when: so it’s alright for someone to call me a ****** and beat me up, but when I attempt to spread the love and do the same all of a sudden violence and name calling is wrong:p

kinda like that eh

tenshi.equal.Angel:3 11 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

haha that reminds me of someone *thinks*….
but i think you should either say it to them or ignore it :)
oh and you can say it back and see their reaction? :o

[quote Space Weaver:]
yeah!!! some rules are different for some people.

that’s just like when: so it’s alright for someone to call me a ****** and beat me up, but when I attempt to spread the love and do the same all of a sudden violence and name calling is wrong:p

kinda like that eh[quote]

hehe yeah i think its quiet like that too. like when mum goes mad if i cut her, saying i ‘don’t listen’ but she cuts me all the time and talks over me and never listen to what i say anyways XP

I just ignore it :P

Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

It’s not only that too. One time when I didn’t respond to the girl’s facebook inbox, her sister said she was asking why I never responded but both of them didn’t respond to my messages from yesterday! Annoying!

tenshi.equal.Angel:3 11 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
It’s not only that too. One time when I didn’t respond to the girl’s facebook inbox, her sister said she was asking why I never responded but both of them didn’t respond to my messages from yesterday! Annoying!

oh. you should really tell them/her if its annoying you. I’m always honest to my friends and tell them exactly what I’m thinking/feeling. I’m sure they’ll understand. and maybe they are doing it on purpose cus you didn’t answer?
either way, tell them its bothering you. all the good luck :)

tenshi.equal.Angel:3 11 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

If they don’t listen or keep doing it just to bother you, then maybe thy aren’t that great of friends. but i don’t know them so i cant be the judge of that. ^^

Space Weaver 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Yup, I can’t tell you the countless times that’s happened in my lifetime:D

Because it happened so often I just say **** it and move on as well.

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