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I figured out what’s wrong!

! I can fall in love, but no one can love me back!! Why?? Im not a bad guy…people seem to like me, but no love…whats it feel like to be loved back??I haven’t had a girlfriend that ever loved me ( I thought I found someone a while ago, until I met her other boyfriends (all 3 of them )..so I just gave up..a few years ago..I still like some girls in my area, but I just don’t bother anymore…what’s the point of even living like this?? Haven’t even been hugged in forever…..
..so depressing …
..should I just end it all?? I kinda want to…

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Other people can love you back. Just be patient. They will. No need to consider ending it ever. Maybe you’re just picking the wrong girls. There are a lot of fish in the sea, just keep swimming :)

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Been very patient ….10 year’s long enough? ? And I’m only 38

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

No it is not long enough. If you make it clear to yourself and the world what you want, and you actively seek it, i’m sure your desires will be met soon enough. You have to keep trying though.

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tenshi.equal.Angel:3 offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

you’ll meet the right person when the time is right :)
and don’t give up :o
*hugs* sorry… i thought it was needed :P good luck and yep, be more patient :D

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 9 minutes after post)

If you became a jerk, your odds of getting a girlfriend would dramatically increase–just read the posts on this site for proof!

But I recommend being true to yourself, and looking only for that top 30 percent of women who are worth talking to. You don’t have to be a jerk–or even a jock–for these women to like you. You will find it’s a great experience to talk to a woman who’s got a brain in her head, instead of the bottom 70 percent who think with their glands!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Ive felt this way before ..and I used to cut myself …it actually helped in some ways….and I’m really starting to miss doing it…I want to start again….
Really miss the feeling of blood slowly running down my arms and just watching it drip….it puts me in a trance …..and all is forgotten for a while….you might think it would just hurt, but its the exact opposite …and the deeper the cuts, the better it feels…sounds messed up, but its true.
I’ve been to a shrink before and he prescribed meds for severe depression ..,I never cut myself before I took those pills!! Haven’t had this urge in a long time!!!
Don’t know what to do??

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