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I’m depressed most of the time…

My problem is that i’m not doing anything with my life right now.
I’m taking care of my dads farm while hes having fun traveling which i think he deserves, but, I’m completely lonely i mean i’ve been like this for 5 months now and it’s starting to affect me..

the firs few months were ok because i was in high school which took most of my time but i just graduated and now i’m 24/7 in the farm..

I try keeping my mind busy reading, writing doing exercise and gardening, i’m even learning how to sing.. but it’s all getting really monotonous.

Friends yea sure i have, the problem is that i don’t really like them that much.

And i have so many thing in my mind,Suicide comes once in a while but not as an option, it’s not like my problems can’t be solve. I’m just really bored of this.

For some reason i just keep getting depressed. I don’t like being alone.

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iam_annymou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Have you considered finding a partner?
or get a pet, A dog..a cat or something.. Ive been living by my self for about 4 years now, it always helps knowing that you’ve got a friend around :P

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Julfelrodmo offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

iam_annymou wrote:
Have you considered finding a partner?
or get a pet, A dog..a cat or something.. Ive been living by my self for about 4 years now, it always helps knowing that you’ve got a friend around :P

Pets.. Hum no, i have way to many animals right now.. Dogs, cows, ducks… well farm animals..

and friends yea sure its easy for me to make friends but i see no point in it right now, as soon as my dad gets back i’m moving to another city. so it would be a waste of time to make new friends.

it’s a temporary problem, but it’s killing me…

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jon_hendrat offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

I live by myself for about 8 years now, from the start of college years to working now. I spend some time on weekend at church and hang out with them most of the time. Why don’t you try that? It helps since you can find many friends, and do a lot of activities that are useful and you can feel good afterward as well. I don’t feel lonely at all

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