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you are not worthless, your 14.
life doesn’t start until your 20, anyway.
you’re just dealing with problems with self image and insecurities and anxieties brought on from the outside world. You will get older and see how silly you are being now. Don’t worry about those things “four eyes, emo, stupid”
Four eyes is a painfully immature way of looking at it. You have glasses, it is not a big deal. I like people who wear glasses. Anyone who calls people four eyes is an idiot. (so stop calling yourself that!) If it REALLY bothers you, get contacts. If you can’t, live with it.
Emo is a word that means nothing. Stop saying it. Stop thinking it. It defines no one ever and it doesn’t mean anything. Take that word to the trash and throw it away, like I wish I had done when I was your age. There is no such thing as emo, call it what you want, but just see that people are people and labels are cruel.
I really doubt you’re stupid, you’re just so young! You have a lot to learn and see. Just take your days once a time. There are others with more serious problems.

And about the beating up no friends incident. I don’t really get that. You got beat up, and then now no one likes you? I don’t see the connection.
But that’s beyond me, I guess. Tell your parents about it! It’s serious and important that you tell them.

Its not really that odd. You’re just surrounded by immature idiots. You should talk to someone about things though. Do you think its more reasonable to deal with these people yourself or get someone in the school you go to involved? It is possible to get someone in toruble without you even telling some person. Just be close enough to a teacher or principle that if someone says or does something to you that they will be in ear range they can overhear but not so close that they can see that person t here like maybe hang around the other corner. People are pretty stupid so that would work. You could also just ignore what people say to you and just smirk and almost half laugh which actually really ticks people off because they start feeling powerless that youre laughing at them for their ignorant jackassery. I’m sorry thats happening to you *hugs*

sending you a giant cyber hug :)
Don’t let the bullies get away with it.
Tell someone, teacher, counselor,
someone who can take action to stop this
You’re young have your life in front of you
Don’t let bullies ruin it.
Trust me i’m 195 yr old woman, who was picked on & bullied
all thru school. Please take care

My dear Grace, I am having a hard time trying to fathom why you would want to do away with yourself, when it is only inferior people who have bullied you.

Do you think a moral or superior person would bully someone else?

Can you see Winston Churchill taking some other kid’s lunch money, and giving him a black eye?

Of course not!

Listen . . . the people who bully others are just little s***s. They are inferior. They have an inferiority complex for the simple reason that they know they are inferior. They try to feel superior by making innocent people feel inferior. No one who was ever a bully has ever made anything out of him- or herself! And I don’t care if 99% of your school is made up of jerks or bullies–numbers do not mean they are not inferior!

First, talk with your parents and the school to have any bullying stopped. You should talk with a therapist in order to feel good about yourself again. Bullies try to strip away a person’s dignity–their happiness. And they try to do it because they are so miserable themselves.

Remember always that you are a child of God, and you have a very important part to play in the Divine Plan that was drawn up before the foundations of this world were laid. You have a purpose on this earth. You have a right to be here. You will make a contribution to society whereas those inferior bullies will be nothing but parasites.

I will tell you also that there is someone out there for you. There is a Prince Charming who will want you and only you.

I will tell you something else. You have about four more years of secondary school. After that, all of the people in your school will be leaving the nest and will be out on their own. The inferior people–the bullies–are going to end up in menial jobs. The geeky people–the ones they liked to pick on–are going to be the managers and directors, i.e., the bosses of the erstwhile bullies.

You will see karma at work in your lifetime–you will see the bullies get theirs. And you will know that Providence is taking care of business!

Hang in there–you have a bright future ahead of you! Don’t let some foul-breathed, lizard-brained inferior person take that away from you!

“The Sherlockian” is very wise

No Grace, you’re not odd and you’re not all those awful things that people have told you you are. You are a beautiful, wonderful human being whom people have chosen not to understand. The fault lies with them - not with you. Unfortunately, you are at that age when your hormones are completely out of whack (as they are for most people your age). Depression at your age is rampant, but, don’t let it pull you down. Just put your faith in God (if you believe there is a God), else put your faith in the God within you and know that in 5 years from now you will be happy to be alive and well. Just always think positive and when someone says something negative to you just send it back to them. God bless you and make you realize how special you are.:)

i found when people cut you down, bullie you
they’re just jealous, if you can let em know
they doesn’t bother you
you know the old, old saying
“sticks & stones may break my bones,
but names will never hurt me”
stupid saying, be strong

Hi Grace, just wondering how you are doing. Please do write a short note and tell us what’s going through your mind now. There are a lot of people out there anxious about you and the situation you are in, so sunshine please keep in touch with us.:)

Gracie, are things going better ?
Cyber hugs :)

Gracie where are you sunshine? Waiting to hear from you……….