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explain what the situation is, and i’ll see what i can help with :)
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i have a crazy ex who moved to the other side of australia, she still wants to be with me though, and she just wont move on, no matter how brutally i tell ger that nothing is going to happen. sometimes we still talk as friends, but we end up fighting about everything very quickly.
anyway, i’m inlove with a new girl, well, i think i am, and my ex has caught onto it, via facebook, and she added the new girl.
now, could just be me overthinking, but my ex could say anything to this new girl without me knowing it at all.
but just to make it all a little more complicated, i can’t tell this new girl how i feel just yet, because i’ve only known her about 3 weeks, and we’ve only hung out twice, but i’m so into her, her mind is like a whole new experience i’ve never known before. also, i get this gut feeling she’s outta my league.
by the way, i’m 19, if that changes what you think
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im good at these kindas of things. whats up?
1) Cut off all contact with someone if you’re worried they’re crazy and out to get you. Block on Facebook, become invisible to her, etc.
2) You might want to move quicker in telling the other girl you like her, then. It sounds as if your ex is working against you ^^
even if i block her, they still have contact, but maybe you’re right, i could just tell her, but it’s so risky this early :(
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Well, instead of telling the girl you like her, you could just warn her about your ex and say how crazy she is, and how she’s likely to say bad things about you. Eh?
wait does your ex know you have a thing for this new girl?
and what could your ex say? you mean lies or things you don’t want the new girl to know?
i agree with DarkSnow, maybe you should speed it up on this one and tell her truthfully how you feel :) and yes you should probs warn her
yeah, that’s what i was thinking of doing before i posted on here, just wanted to see if anyone else thought that was a good idea, and if anyone else had other ideas
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she doesn’t know exactly, but she’s assumed so, and she’s good at noticing that kind of thing, she’s quick and she’s smart when it comes to being a b*tch, haha.
i’ll just tell the new girl tomorrow, along with a warning about the other one, seems like the best way to go hey?
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well if u say too many bad things about your ex she might get the idea your one of those guys who rages about everything. likew my dad…..and yea u should tell her how you feel before ur ex tells her something else.
hey, ask her out. its better safe than sorry, i mean if you really like her yes just tell her. :)
good luck ^-^
i’m no angel, but i’ve got nothing to hide, but she’s made up a whole lotta lies about me in the past, so i don’t see why she wouldn’t again..
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danielcarroll.carrol wrote:
well if u say too many bad things about your ex she might get the idea your one of those guys who rages about everything. likew my dad…..
Right. Don’t be a person who complains a lot. Just mention that it’s possible this girl is unstable and could say bad things about you, give a little background perhaps, and leave it at that. And what your ex says later will make your case for you.
yep, you’ve all motivated me, i’m gonna ask her out tomorrow, or atleast tell her how i feel! :)
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genius! make my ex look stupid if she does try anything, heh :)
thankyou, all!
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Exactly. Whenever you tell the truth, other people who tell lies will expose themselves >:)
Karma will get her ;)
thanks again everyone!
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DarkSnow wrote:
Exactly. Whenever you tell the truth, other people who tell lies will expose themselves >:)
haha, sounds like good plan to me.
opiuo-is-so-funk wrote:
Karma will get her ;)
thanks again everyone!
anytime :D
MsMoraes
DarkSnow
opiuo-is-so-funk
DANTHEMAN