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Why do i bother?

ok that girl i mentioned in my last post, we are still friends so i try and talk to her often, but every time i do she always seems to be able to put me down and make me feel bad about myself.

I was just wondering should i really even try or should i just give up because i enjoy talking to her even though she makes me feel bad…

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

It’s ok I googled it and I think you may be right… I am an masochist

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

She gets off on hurting people?

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

What can I do?

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

It’s not s much like trash, basically she is just saying stuff like life sucks and she wants to die… She is making me worry

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

Umm ok, thanks, I will try help her but she is making it tough

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I can’t do that, it’s basically this girl just won’t let anyone in, I just gotta figure out how to change that

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Dàmö offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

How do you help someone that doesn’t want it?

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