boyfriend help: Is it bad that my boyfriend thinks I should drive him places - Help.com



This post left anonymously

Is it bad that my boyfriend thinks I should drive him

places and his parents say everything is my fault what am I going to do please help me

This open post was written 10 months, 2 weeks ago | V/U/S: 426, 7, 7 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.

Post Tags (3)

boyfriend, drive, Fault (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (7)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

well the words “bite me” come to mind
WTH does he pay for gas, & no you shouldn’t be driving him anywherre
does he have a license or did he lose it DWI,

Feeling better you want me to go over there & have a little chat with em
They’re not going to mess with a 195 yr old woman
& if they do I’ll beat em with my cane

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: May 24 1980, I was beaten,
Anonymous #
10 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

well he’s just using you for a chauffer, is he really your boyfriend? or are you just his ride? does he pay for all the gas? i mean, if he’s riding, he should be paying - why can’t he go learn to drive and get his own car? if he can’t afford it, he shouldn’t be mooching everything off you … that ain’t a boyfriend, duh

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Tantalus offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

OH I don’t know… is it reasonable? I mean, if a pretty girl was to say to me ‘I want you to travel to town so I can drag you around for 2 hours while I shop for cloths’, I would think it a courtesy to offer me a ride.

On the other hand, if I cant be arsed to walk round the corner to pick up some milk, I don’t expect someone to drive to my place and pick me up, I would just have to go without cereal for a while.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Over the last few years, I felt like a Failure.
Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Does your boyfriend have a car? Does he get wasted and you are his designated driver? It could be a good thing as long as he is paying for gas and acting like a boyfriend and not a sponge.

Your boyfriend’s parents are another matter entirely. Generally it is hard to get along with your significant others parents. Wait until you have in-laws and they move in with you… been there done that. If you love your boyfriend you just have to put up with his family. Hopefully he puts you ahead of them, that is the important part. When he sides with them you are in trouble… that is when it is time to look for another boyfriend. After you dump him and his parents of course.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Is this song politically incorrect?
Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

do you know what time it is?
time to find a new boyfriend I suppose..

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: What gets paint out of carpet?
Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:
do you know what time it is?
time to find a new boyfriend I suppose..

Yes, that’s true you’re absolutely right :)

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: May 24 1980, I was beaten,
The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (6 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Definitely time to change out the boyfriend!

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Rape and justice in the wonderful world of Sharia law in Dubai .

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.