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rsharma.pm0 wrote:
try hard every thing to meet her.i m feeling pain too.
Her parents don’t want us to be with each other so that me be hard..
set to fail wrote:
rsharma.pm0 wrote:
try hard every thing to meet her.i m feeling pain too.
Her parents don’t want us to be with each other so that me be hard..
Why?
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
Set To Fail wrote:
rsharma.pm0 wrote:
TRY HARD EVERY THING TO MEET HER.I M FEELING PAIN TOO.
Her parents don’t want us to be with each other so that me be hard..
Why?
They want her to date a Christian, classy guy.. I am a Christian, I’m not the classiest guy. This all basically happened 2 years ago and I was clinically depressed at the time so of course I wasn’t the happiest guy and stuff, They judged my from that and now I pretty much lost my chances even though I believe I’d be the best for her.
That was 2 years ago though. What triggered you to bring her back up? Have you been thinking about her all this time?
Define, “you’re not the classiest guy”.
I’ve always had a thing for her since and like… I swear, I’m dirty, I’m defiant, etc. I just don’t fit they’re standards from what they got from 2 years ago.
Well, you enjoy being with her why not just be friends?
Other than not being depressed anymore (I’m assuming) what is different about you? Is there something you could show to her parents that you’ve improved? That is, if you really are serious about this girl. From what I’m getting from this, my 2 cents with the littlest amount of info I have ;P, is that you enjoyed the relationship then… so let it stay there :) Its nice to look back and be nostalgic, that’s what the past is for, but maybe you should find someone else to connect with less family complications.
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
Well, you enjoy being with her why not just be friends?
Other than not being depressed anymore (I’m assuming) what is different about you? Is there something you could show to her parents that you’ve improved? That is, if you really are serious about this girl. From what I’m getting from this, my 2 cents with the littlest amount of info I have ;P, is that you enjoyed the relationship then… so let it stay there :) Its nice to look back and be nostalgic, that’s what the past is for, but maybe you should find someone else to connect with less family complications.
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
Well, you enjoy being with her why not just be friends?
Other than not being depressed anymore (I’m assuming) what is different about you? Is there something you could show to her parents that you’ve improved? That is, if you really are serious about this girl. From what I’m getting from this, my 2 cents with the littlest amount of info I have ;P, is that you enjoyed the relationship then… so let it stay there :) Its nice to look back and be nostalgic, that’s what the past is for, but maybe you should find someone else to connect with less family complications.
Yeah I’m not the best a explain stuff lol and I wanna be more than friends and I’m not depressed anymore (I’m still not very positive), I’m Christian, More social and looking at the past for me makes me sad cause it shows me what I don’t have.
Then focus on your present. It’s a lot scarier but very worth it :) We look at the past because it’s familiar territory and it gives us an excuse not to change and mope around. Living life right now means that you get the chance to live all of the things you think you don’t have or don’t deserve. You get the opportunity to be better every morning you wake up, that’s what I try to be grateful for.
What does she think about all this? Have you spoken to her recently and how does she feel about how her parents are acting?
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
Then focus on your present. It’s a lot scarier but very worth it :) We look at the past because it’s familiar territory and it gives us an excuse not to change and mope around. Living life right now means that you get the chance to live all of the things you think you don’t have or don’t deserve. You get the opportunity to be better every morning you wake up, that’s what I try to be grateful for.
What does she think about all this? Have you spoken to her recently and how does she feel about how her parents are acting?
She doesn’t like it and told me we’d just have to wait till she’s 18 for us to be together and I wish I could be that positive :P
Then be! lol it’s a lot easier than you think. I’ve been sad, I know how it feels to be down all the time. You kind of train yourself to think negative things, even if you don’t notice it directly. Now un-train yourself. Lol. If it were as easy to do than say then we’d all be a bunch of happy idiots running around- how boring would that be?
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
Then be! lol it’s a lot easier than you think. I’ve been sad, I know how it feels to be down all the time. You kind of train yourself to think negative things, even if you don’t notice it directly. Now un-train yourself. Lol. If it were as easy to do than say then we’d all be a bunch of happy idiots running around- how boring would that be?
I’ve been trying to, not going as planned and thats true :P I say the same thing about if people weren’t weird lol
Everyone’s weird, I won’t let anyone tell me differently haha. Obviously you’ve been seeing some results with the thinking positively thing because guess what? You used to be depressed. Now you’re not. Or at least, you aren’t as much as you were. That’s a whole lot better.
Even the way I just explained that lol that’s being positive, even if you don’t believe a word of it. Fake it long enough and you will haha ;P
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
Everyone’s weird, I won’t let anyone tell me differently haha. Obviously you’ve been seeing some results with the thinking positively thing because guess what? You used to be depressed. Now you’re not. Or at least, you aren’t as much as you were. That’s a whole lot better.
Even the way I just explained that lol that’s being positive, even if you don’t believe a word of it. Fake it long enough and you will haha ;P
I’ll keep trying that lol Just hoping it’ll pay off with her
Have you talked to her recently? Maybe you’ll find someone else along the way?
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
Have you talked to her recently? Maybe you’ll find someone else along the way?
I talked to her about 3 days ago.. And I don’t want to
lol the funny thing about life is that things hardly happen when or the exact way we want it to. As for this girl, try to do things that’ll get her parents to see you in a better light. I think that’s important since, if you end up together, you gonna have to deal with them at one point or the other.
seasonsoflove7 wrote:
lol the funny thing about life is that things hardly happen when or the exact way we want it to. As for this girl, try to do things that’ll get her parents to see you in a better light. I think that’s important since, if you end up together, you gonna have to deal with them at one point or the other.
Yeah that’s what I’m worried about :/ and I’ll have to try to think of a way to show them.. Thanks for talking to me by the way :)
Nooo problem :)
Good luck
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I miss my highschool sweetheart.
Long,painful and a sad story.. I still miss her but still can’t have her for about a year. I wanna wait but.. I don’t know if she does, Getting tired of waiting. There’s something special about her, She has a effect on me no one else does. I just want to be with her.
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