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i don’t want to say sugar coated promises to my boyfriend

since we’re only dating for 3 months, but i don’t want him to feel like i don’t love him enough. what should i do?

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

Tell him, “Let’s see where it goes . . . I’m liking it so far!”

Don’t commit yourself simply because you’re afraid to hurt his feelings.

You should take it nice and slow. Three months isn’t long enough to make any commitments!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

When he says “i love you”, just reply by quickly saying “I love youtube”. Its legit since he’ll feel better and you won’t have to lie!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

sannankhan199 wrote:
When he says “i love you”, just reply by quickly saying “I love youtube”. Its legit since he’ll feel better and you won’t have to lie!

really? ugh…

why do you have to promise anything when you don’t want to? and why can’t you be honest? i don’t get it, it’s like setting yourself up for failure.

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