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im bored of everything.

I had enough of everything. everything is boring or i dont even want to think about. and often i force myself to do something, but after 5 minutes i just cant continue. im sitting in front of my computer all day but actaully im doing nothing useful. we moved to a city where everybody is at home in front of their pc chatting and talking on skype. i dont feel comfortable when im with my friends as i used to (except 1 or 2). i used to love (digital) interior designing, but now if i open the 3d software i just close it after 5 mins but i used to work many hours a day and didnt get bored of it. Everything is boring. especially what is used to like.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 35 minutes after post)

There needs to be some encouragement in your life for your successes, otherwise you feel discouraged and give up. Or at least, that’s what I’ve observed.
People don’t care much about doing well if they don’t have people to share with.

So I’d think that the cause of the part about not feeling much motivation and being bored is your issue with your friends.

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chris0320 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

i share everything with my gf, but for the past 2 months for some reasons we havent seen each other so much. now that you mentioned that theres a need to share our successes, i can recall that it was way better when me end my gf were together much more… but at the end of august she’s coming to my place for a week and after that week we can meet almost every day, not like now. I hope it’ll be better then.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Your entire life isn’t just her though. I hope that you have other people you can call good friends that you can be around =)
It’s a dangerous tendency some people have of focusing on only one relationship in their life to the point that they forget about friends and/or family.

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chris0320 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

Yes i have, but they arent in this city so until september (school starts) i wont see them

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

But you can always make friends there too and meet people. Find local activities, organizations, clubs, groups, whatever to be a part of.
Find ways to get involved. Even in small towns where there are very few people, they still find ways to have social gatherings, meet new people, and enjoy their free time. And cities are even more likely to have such things. You just have to be proactive about it and find out the ways it is done. =)

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