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should i tell my boyfriend about my dream?

i had a weird dream about his ex. It’s weird scene. His two ex were in my dream even though I had never seen them before. He was his ex’s room using the computer and his ex kept trying to get back together with him and won’t leave him alone. Then she gets up and start sitting next to him and tries to kiss him and he has one arm around her to comfort her. I sat outside and I saw everything and she think I didn’t see it.

Then later he tells me to go out and eat because its disrespectful to not eat when offered food at someone’s house and I felt like crying and wanted to hurry and finish my food and leave because I didn’t want tears to fall.

Should I tell him about my dream or no? I don;t even know why I have this dream anyways. It’s probably because He’s trying to enter his car show this month and chis ex is a model there and I fear that she will try to get bck together with him and lusting. What should I do?

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Padre J Roulston offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,033 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

what does your heart tell you?

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lisalovesalic offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 55 minutes after post)

Hmm.. Well I would just tell him about it as a joke an laugh at it and see what his reaction is.. If he nervously is laughing you know something’s up if he waves you off and says “that’s ridiculous” then your clear.
Don’t make it seem obvious or forced (the laughter) just make it seem like your just telling him about it for fun:D

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I’d just let it go if I were you.

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seasonsoflove7 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

This dream is about you and how you feel. We bring our lives and emotions into our dreams sometimes. Get yourself to calm down and stop worrying so much. You can joke with him about her being there but don’t yell at him or make him feel annoyed with you because that shows how much you don’t trust him.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

Don’t tell him.

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