About an old best friend coming back into my life…
I don’t know how to feel about it. We lost touch last year after she switched schools, and lately she’s been telling me how much she misses me and all of this stuff. Ugh, I kind of miss her too, but I wonder if that chapter in my life is closed as far as us being “best friends” again. We didn’t talk at all last year for a reason. She was such a negative person at the time, and I just kept reminding myself of that every time I missed her. All the time she made me feel insecure, and inadequate. She had a lot of complaints and a lot of judgments, and she didn’t just complain about me, it was about everyone else around too (some of my friends included at the time). So this also made me feel like she could have been talking about me behind my back.
Basically, she was a bad influence on me, yet I still loved her and forgave her nonetheless. I mean this girl was ALWAYS there for me when I needed her, I could always lean on her, and she was very loyal. We also shared so many things with each other, we talked about everything, like she literally told me everything. There were just so many negative and positive things that came out of this relationship, you know? Thinking about everything makes it so hard for me to choose whether I should still be her friend or not. I mean I could easily just give up, and never talk to her or see her again, but what if she changed her ways? Would I be missing out?
What do you guys think?
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