friends help: my friend’s sister is dead , i went to the funeral and i was there from him - Help.com

Why is your father refusing? Perhaps you should talk to your Dad and find out what the problem is.

my dad is a bit old fashioned he doesn’t like me going out with boys and so on !
i told him my friend ( a girl ) will come with us so we won’t be alone but actually he didn’t like the idea all of it
he said i went to the funeral and i was good so going out with him won’t make it better !

Ages?

The boy should come up to your house, and should meet your father. I always wanted to see the guys my daughter was going out with. I’d look them in the eye and they’d know my daughter wasn’t the girl they wanted to mess with!

Ur dad sounds like a jerk your friend just lost his sister how old r u anyways

I would always advise against dishonest behaviour so I would have to say sneeking off for me, whilst tempting and understandable, is the wrong thing to do.

Things eventually come to a point with parents where we feel we are better positioned to know what is good for us or what we ‘need’ to do. Whilst you are living under his roof though it is not unreasonable of him to expect you to abide by his wishes. Parents dont always get it right and can be controling however it does not mean that we can do what ever we choose and expect no consequence.

Your friend should have people around him and you can only be avaliable when you are avaliable and I am sure he will be respectfull of this and appreciate the effort you do make.

Despite his tragic loss if he is a good friend he will always be repectful of things beyond your control, if he is a good friend he will not hold it against you, period.

we’re 18
he doesn’t have to be over protective because i am not young anymore but he’s my dad anyways i always have to obey him but this makes me kinda sad when i want something so much and i can’t do it because he just refuses !