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2012 was the end of the world my world any way my girlfriend

of 18 yrs just ended it I believed we would be together for ever i cried so many tears even now 8 months on I miss her and my step son he was 4 when we got together I’ve done everything for him brought him is first computer I went to every parent evening I was the proud father taught him to drive gave him is first car even though I couldn’t afford it and now he won’t even answer my calls or texts I just managed to sort out my mortgage when your 52 it’s hard to get one also means I have to work till I’m 72 the one constant thing was at least I have a job but that looks like I’m about to lose that it’s a nightclub and it’s mostly young people I’ve trained somebody to do my job to help me what I believed but no they changed the job role so now they can get rid of me by saying the jobs not there anymore I feel so sick I’ve always been a good person regular church member I have money taken out of my wages for Save the children and the altzimers association my mum is in the final stages it hurts to see her just lay there now I don’t know what to do I’m going to lose everything I feel like there is no one out there no god nobody how sad is this I just don’t want to go on anymore

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Your “girlfriend” of 18 years? No marriage?

Sounds like you have an age discrimination complaint. Contact the EEOC.

If you want help from God, it would help if you would not cast Him with the pantheon of pagan gods by using the diminutive “god.”

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nightcrusader offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

She never wanted marriage she done that before and failed I think I’m a good Christian but sometimes you look at your life and you
Think I must of been a bad person I hurt everyday maybe I feel sorry for myself but I really don’t want to lose my home the firm I work for are not just UK they are all over the world and they do this all the time it’s called constructive dismissal and there is nothing you can do about it thanks for your reply god bless

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

You are 52. Your girlfriend was 18 and your step son was 4, 8 months ago…

So why are you buying computers much less teaching a 5 year old how to DRIVE!??

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nightcrusader offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Sorry we had been together for 18yrs she’s 47 my son is 23 now I probably didn’t explain myself very well she finished with me new years eve 8onths ago and it still hurts

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

Oh… my bad. By “ending it” I thought you meant she committed suicide.

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nightcrusader offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

No worries Thanx for reply

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

Do you know any of your step-sons friends? Perhaps you can reach out to him through them. No pressure; he’s probably a bit bitter about things. But as long as you leave the door open he may come back around.

And if you think you are a good Christian than you are not really. Being a Christian has nothing to do with good deeds or money spent to help disadvantaged people. it’s ALL about a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. If there is no relationship, there is no Christian good or bad.

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IrAdler offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 21 minutes after post)

It sounds like she ended it. What happened? Can you tell us what happened that not even her son is talking with you?

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

There are jobs here in the Middle East. Check out the UK defence contractors who are over here.

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nightcrusader offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 13 minutes after post)

southern_comfort, IP wrote:
Do you know any of your step-sons friends? Perhaps you can reach out to him through them. No pressure; he’s probably a bit bitter about things. But as long as you leave the door open he may come back around.

And if you think you are a good Christian than you are not really. Being a Christian has nothing to do with good deeds or money spent to help disadvantaged people. it’s ALL about a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. If there is no relationship, there is no Christian good or bad.

I know your right about it’s about your own relationship with Christ but I was always brought up to believe that if you are a good person then good things will Happen to you guess I’m just looking for reasons why my life came undone I believed my life was perfect I didn’t see it coming she just said she didn’t love me anymore I sent my son a text about a month ago he won’t answer the phone he’s alway been his mums son that the nice thing about him he loves his mum but I told him I loved him I’m proud of the man he’s become and I’d alway be here for him

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♥ Fairytale ♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 3 minutes after post)

your world will end? every bodies life will end in 21/12/2012
http://help.com/post/531171-whats-goi…
no need to be upset…world is in ending road lol!

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