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I am f******** up my life.

Is this ‘cheating’? Is this morally wrong?
Before I start this I better tell you that I am 15 years old, 16 in two months.

Yesterday, my friend asked me out to my face to be his girlfriend. Out of shock I mumbled something like “urm.. yes”
So now we’re supposedly going out. But the first thing I did when i became his ‘girlfriend’ was text my friend asking if he was busy the next day. He has just turned 20 years old.

Today we went out for a walk and a coffee. I told him that my friend had asked me out but not that I had said yes. He told me that “well, He’s not the only one who likes you. I really like you” And me being the awkward person I am, muttered “ok… thanks”
He also told me to wear my best clothes on friday because he’s taking me out bowling and for a meal and that he’ll properly ask me out then.

Then he put his arm around me till the train to take me home came, and kissed me on the cheek.
The whole time I felt stranger’s eyes boring in to me, probably thinking “and how old is she?”
But what makes me feel physically sick is….. I think I like him too.

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9 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

okei! wrote:
torn between two lovers? but awww, still cute to be young and in-love.

yes, but one is 20… is that wrong to be just over 4 years apart?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

ditch the 20 year old he’s just a perv.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

if you’re still considered a kid i’d reconsider ‘going out’ w/ the 20yr old. from my experience going out meant on a date, or dating, which doesn’t mean you can’t date others at the same time. unless you guys clarify from the beginning which would be more of a bf/gf situation imo. and i don’t find it cute, personally(not that it matters lol).

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9 months, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

okay.

monkichirmo wrote:
if you’re still considered a kid i’d reconsider ‘going out’ w/ the 20yr old. from my experience going out meant on a date, or dating, which doesn’t mean you can’t date others at the same time. unless you guys clarify from the beginning which would be more of a bf/gf situation imo. and i don’t find it cute, personally(not that it matters lol).

Huh, What don’t you find cute?

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

okei! wrote:
torn between two lovers? but awww, still cute to be young and in-love.

this, lol.

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9 months, 2 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

okay… sorry

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