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My boyfriend is always busy.
It’s either doing his own stuff like fixing his car, doing alot of stuff on his day offs, helping his parents. When I ask him to help me, he doesn’t necessarily help me. Though I don’t ask him much help. He asks me more help since he always busy and stuff and I try my best to offer my help.
Anyways what I don’t like is when he be helping his friends with this and that on his days offs. Yet he complains how tired he is. I mean why help your friends if you get all tired and stuff? Give yourself a break.
i wanted to watch Ted, and I been saying it for weeks. He said we will watch it, but we never did. Now I am pissed because he said he need to install some stupid surveilance camera. I swear wtf you need that for just because your neighbor scratches your car and stuff. we had someone did that too. If you park your car elsewhere same thing will happen. Anyways, I hate it because everytime I want to watch a movie really bad, no one wanna watch it with me. My ex was the same thing. He would not watch it me and rather me download it. He;s cheap. Then my bff won’t watch it with me and promised to watch it with me, but he never did. Then now its my boyfriend…
I really feel like b****ing at him. And tell him I guess we’re not hanging out today. Fine w/e, But i don’t wanna be b****. I understand he’s busy, but most of the time he does not know how to prioritize his time. He says he will get done at 1 or maybe at 2, but ends up getting done at 3 or 4pm.
I do complain a little, but I try not to. But then one time I had to do a drug test and I was already getting pissed finding the location and he complains and keeps telling me to come to his house for a bit and then go to the drug test. And says he waits for me the whole entire day and didn’t do anything. Imagine me waiting on him and then he ends up cancels on me sometimes. I got so pissed that he would even get pissed like that. When I get mad, that’s when he tells me to stop being mad and just drop it….
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