Here’s the situation…
My brother just told me that he is cheating on his wife with his across the street neighbor. He’s got two sons, one from a previous relationship and one with his wife. The chick across the street also has two kids of her own.
They act like they are “just friends” around his wife and the rest of the neighborhood, but everybody already suspects that something is going on between them. I have no idea what his wife thinks, but she’s not an idiot and I’m sure on some level that she is suspicious. I have a lot of love for my sister-in-law. She’s one of the best people I’ve ever known.
Anyways, the problem for me was that I was turning a blind eye when I first suspected something going on between the two of them and didn’t notice until he told me while we were in front of her (the other chick). This situation has also come to affect my own relationship with my girlfriend because I spend a lot of time hanging out over there with my brother since the other chick is always over at his house now.
So, here is what I’m thinking; either stop hanging out with my brother for a while until I can manage my own relationship or tell him that this situation is starting to get to me?
The only problem is that he is my brother, but at the same time I am also realizing that he is a horrible person for what he is doing and what he has done (this isn’t the first time that he has cheated on her while they have been together) to my sister-in-law.
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