Person help: it always rains the hardest on the people who deserve the sun - Help.com

If being a good person is important to you, then keep at it. If you aren’t really that good of a person, but try to be… idk, maybe you’re trying too hard and exhausted yourself. just be yourself and have fun. Don’t be a bad person on purpose, but it’s ok to be neutral. going out of your way to be something your not is never the answer, just try to find the bright side of things and more good will come your way. when you appreciate the good in life more good is bound to come, same with the bad if that’s all you focus on. there will always be rough patches, but everything will work out eventually. just find ways to enjoy yourself and have fun! It’ll help, trust me. you really sound like you need a break from everyday life.

I like rain better than sun but I get your point. Sadly every one goes through hardships, but the good people feel like they shouldn’t so they feel worse when they do. It’s not that it happens more often it just feels more excruciating to the better person.

hmmm…. yeah, I get it. I used to always be worried if i was a good or bad person, and what I did to deserve bad things happening in life, but then I just decided to give up on all that drama and try to just enjoy life and not care what people think of me or if I’m good or bad. It seemed to help and has saved me quite a bit of time staying up unable to sleep, you know?

We all share the same burden of existence, life and death. But attitude and wisdom can make a big difference. Positive thinking and love help.

“wait for the light, press on…cause the pain that you’ve been feeling is just the dark before the morning”-Josh Wilson (song: “before the morning”)
“don’t give up and the dark is breaking In today , just keep on moving through these storms and soon enough you’ll find the door”-calling glory “don’t give up” song

Search these up if you’d like it could help
2 corinthians 4:16-18
Jeremiah 29:11

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It rains on every one, we just notice it more when it happens to good people. You have to remember to play the long game… don’t look at tomorrow, look at next week, look at a year from now… where do you want to be then. “rain” helps you grow as a person, not pleasant, but very true.

That was nicely written , and yes your right it does seem that way sometimes , but in reality in rains on all of us just as hard as the next person we just don’t feel their pain as much as we can feel some others . I’m still trying to fiqure it out and I haven’t .You love and you’re loved you hurt and you hurt other’s , it is so hard ,I can’t count the times I’ve cried for others and I would hope there are some who have cried for me , we just pray , and pray , have faith and hope ,and count on God to get us through , I will pray for you now as I say my prayers , Goodnight.