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She said it’s unfair to her boyfriend if we talk?

What is this supposed to mean!? We hooked up once a year ago, but we never actually dated. Just were good friends. Now all of a sudden she gives me this crap and tells me to delete her number. She has plenty of guy friends, some of which I’m certain she’s been with. so why am I the exception?

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She said it’s unfair to her boyfriend if we talk?

The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Because you’re the potential rival to her boyfriend, and both she and he knows it!

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Might be an excuse for some other reason. Or what Sherlock said.

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9 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

You both really think that would be it? Meh, I don’t understand women. We never dated because she felt we wouldn’t work out because of how different our lives were. Funny to think that she’s the one who never actually moved on.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

Why are you the exeption? Because she has feelings for you her boyfriend can see too.

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9 months, 2 weeks ago (19 hours, 22 minutes after post)

So then, should I do something about this? I don’t want to get in the way of her relationship necessarily but I’ve always had feelings for her. I just set them aside and just became her friend. At the bare minimum I dont want to lose her as a friend, but if what you all agree on is true then it seems like that’s an inevitable. Any action would expose those hidden feelings and either end with us together or never speaking again. Gah! This isn’t fair.

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