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i met a new girl this week at uni.

She is soo cool, we talk for hours, we have a laugh, and she smiles at me and vice versa. We get along so great, i really want to ask her out, even though she is a year older (not that that matters at all), but what if she says no, and this awesome friendship and rapport just dies out.. how do i tell if she likes me back and that, she is just everything i look for in a girl, and i need some help n advice
thanks

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Dyal offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

Hello Dear.

Well honestly i feel like you can do nothing about it. it’s up to her and her understandings. Just ask her and she will accept it or she will reject it. But Just a thought if it affects your friendship that means your friendship is not that strong and if she take it in a negative way that’s mean she not the right one.

Have patience. All you can do is : Ask her to hang out ;-) because if you do not ask the answer will always be NO.

Good Luck.

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9 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

Thank you Kind Soul :)

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Miiau offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

Just ask her, at least youll know. If youre really scared, try not to make a big deal out of it and casually propose you two hang out together. Depending on how that goes, you can then tell her you think you are really starting to like her while you two are together

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Dyal offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Thank you Kind Soul :)

You are Welcome :-)

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9 months, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

Thats a pretty good idea, thanks Miiau

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Miiau offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Thats a pretty good idea, thanks Miiau

No problem, good luck with it ^^

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