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My father keeps asking when i am going to have children?

I don’t even have a girlfriend so it isn’t possible but he asks me at least twice a week, what do i do? i mean really how do i even get a girlfriend i am super shy and i have no self esteem plus i have no idea how to talk to girls…

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Yeti. offline Verified User (3 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

I think he’s teasing you. Take your time, just practice by making constant social contact and eventually you’ll learn the trade, probably.

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Dyal offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

http://thinksimplenow.com/happiness/2…

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

Don’t let him apply pressure to you.
Just answer all the time stereotypically: “Time will tell!”
Maybe he will keep quiet after a while — if not, repeat it.

Concerning your low self-esteem, try this:
 
“How to increase your self-esteem”:
http://www.mind.org.uk/help/diagnoses…

“Six Behaviors that Increase Self-Esteem”:
http://www.changeforgood.com/articles…

“Boost your self-image with these 5 steps”:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/self…

“Self Esteem Affirmations” · Tutorial:
http://www.wiziq.com/tutorial/63505-S…

“Developing Self Confidence”:
http://www.wiziq.com/tutorial/28204-D…

“How to Improve Self Confidence, Self Esteem and Overcome Fear of Rejection”:
http://sofs.hubpages.com/hub/Building…
 
 
And for to find a girlfriend, try this:

“How to Find True Love”:
http://thinksimplenow.com/relationshi…

“How to Get a Girlfriend”:
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girlfriend

“How to Date”:
http://www.wikihow.com/Date

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Lawn Ornament offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Tell him you’ll have children when he pays for your cow uterus implant.

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mindhealer offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 31 minutes after post)

If you want children you’ll need a wife, not a girlfriend. Perhaps search the web for info about how to get a wife — or, better yet, ask your father how to do it. He did somehow, it is a family matter, he probably has ideas about how it should be done.

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