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I can’t move on!

I don’t know what to do! I’ve liked that guy and I think he liked me back. But when I opened up and told him about my feelings, he said he doesn’t have any. And since I think I wasn’t making this up - I mean yeah, maybe I over estimated things sometimes, but really, he made me feel like he’s into me too. So, when things got bad I thought he was playing with my emotions. Actually, it got worse, cause even though he said we’re best friends, when I confronted him, he treated me in a bad manner. He wasn’t rude, but it was like he was so inconsiderate. Like my feelings were nothing. He kept doing silly stuff, like avoiding me, or saying that he likes more than one person! And while I was so miserable about the whole thing, he kept posting things that showed he was having fun and liking others. I know it’s his life, but it was very inconsiderate! Made me feel like I am NOTHING. I had to struggle a lot on my own, and I have tried to move on. But I can’t seem too! Every time, I don’t know how he gets back into my life. I don’t know whether to remain his friend or run away. I feel either way, I will end up unhappy and blame myself. It’s like it I remained his friend, I might get more attached. If I let him out of my life, he will forget about me and I will be miserable. And the biggest problem is that I still can’t move on! I keep trying but it’s been almost a year now! Thought it will easier with time. But I still like him and feel so jealous if he acts like he doesn’t care. I don’t know what he wants too! Why does he still stick around? He keeps saying things like “you’re my best friend,” or share secrets with me that no one knows. I really need help..feel like a mess. Just want to be happy again. How can I get over it?

I can’t move on!

I don’t know what to do! I’ve liked that guy and I think he liked me back. But when I opened up and told him about my feelings, he said he doesn’t have any. And since I think I wasn’t making this up - I mean yeah, maybe I over estimated things sometimes, but really, he made me feel like he’s into me too. So, when things got bad I thought he was playing with my emotions. Actually, it got worse, cause even though he said we’re best friends, when I confronted him, he treated me in a way I didn’t like. He wasn’t rude, but it was like he was so inconsiderate. Like my feelings were nothing. He kept doing silly stuff, like avoiding me, or saying that he likes more than one person! And while I was so miserable about the whole thing, he kept posting things that showed he was having fun or liking another. I know it’s his life, but it was very hard! And, in his own defense, may be he was freaking out or he doesn’t really care a lot. But it all made me feel like I am NOTHING. I had to struggle a lot on my own, and I have tried to move on. But I can’t seem too! I don’t know whether to remain his friend or run away. I feel either way, I will end up unhappy and blame myself. It’s like if I remained his friend, I might get more attached. If I let him out of my life, he will forget about me and I will be miserable. And the biggest problem is that I still can’t move on! I keep trying but it’s been almost a year now! Thought it will be easier with time. But I still like him and feel so jealous if he acts like he doesn’t care. I don’t know what he wants too! Why does he still stick around? He keeps saying things like “you’re my best friend,” or share secrets with me that no one knows. I really need help..feel like a mess. How can I get over it?