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What’s the first thing that comes on your mind,when you read this post..

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

that i can barely hold on…that i just wanna give up and die…
that i can’t do this anymore and i’m hoping for a miracle otherwise i’m not going to be able to make it for too long

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mindhealer offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

That life is great, and awesome and it’s nice that you made a post.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

THIS post?
It comes to my mind: What do you want to tell with?

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
that i can barely hold on…that i just wanna give up and die…
that i can’t do this anymore and i’m hoping for a miracle otherwise i’m not going to be able to make it for too long

Don’t give up! Ask for help and support. Call a hotline and have a talk with people who will understand you!

“How To Avoid Committing Suicide”:
http://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Committi…

“What To Do If You Are In Suicidal Danger”:
http://suicide.com/suicidecrisiscente…

“If your are thinking about suicide … read this first”:
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

“Suicide is NOT a Selfish Act — It is an Act of Desperation by Someone in Intense Pain”:
http://www.suicide.org/suicide-is-not…

✖ Suicide Hotlines (USA, listed by states) ✖
http://www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlin…

✖ Suicide Hotlines (International · Over 60 countries outside USA) ✖
http://www.suicide.org/international-…

✖ International Suicide Prevention Wiki ✖
http://suicideprevention.wikia.com

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
What’s the first thing that comes on your mind,when you read this post..

:)

The very FIRST thing that came to mind is…

“This person wants to post frivolous posts for the heck of it. (just saying)”

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♥ Fairytale ♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

it comes to my mind that i was stupid to open this post to realize what you wrote!

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

Zirbel wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
that i can barely hold on…that i just wanna give up and die…
that i can’t do this anymore and i’m hoping for a miracle otherwise i’m not going to be able to make it for too long

Don’t give up! Ask for help and support. Call a hotline and have a talk with people who will understand you!

“How To Avoid Committing Suicide”:
http://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Committi…

“What To Do If You Are In Suicidal Danger”:
http://suicide.com/suicidecrisiscente…

“If your are thinking about suicide … read this first”:
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

“Suicide is NOT a Selfish Act — It is an Act of Desperation by Someone in Intense Pain”:
http://www.suicide.org/suicide-is-not…

✖ Suicide Hotlines (USA, listed by states) ✖
http://www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlin…

✖ Suicide Hotlines (International · Over 60 countries outside USA) ✖
http://www.suicide.org/international-…

✖ International Suicide Prevention Wiki ✖
http://suicideprevention.wikia.com

Thank you,

you know i don’t want to commit suicide, i’m a really strong person, or at least that’s what everyone says, i try so hard, i keep pushing myself and put myself together every day. but lately things got worse and worse by the day and i don’t know how to put myself together anymore, how long i can keep trying, i feel so weak, so empty and lost that i just don’t know what to do anymore, what to do next like in the next minute, hour, day.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
you know i don’t want to commit suicide, i’m a really strong person, or at least that’s what everyone says, i try so hard, i keep pushing myself and put myself together every day. but lately things got worse and worse by the day and i don’t know how to put myself together anymore, how long i can keep trying, i feel so weak, so empty and lost that i just don’t know what to do anymore, what to do next like in the next minute, hour, day.

That’s why you really should ask for professional help — as soon as possible! Don’t wait any longer and see a therapist, right now!

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Thank you,

you know i don’t want to commit suicide, i’m a really strong person, or at least that’s what everyone says, i try so hard, i keep pushing myself and put myself together every day. but lately things got worse and worse by the day and i don’t know how to put myself together anymore, how long i can keep trying, i feel so weak, so empty and lost that i just don’t know what to do anymore, what to do next like in the next minute, hour, day.

Ok, we both agree that you dont want to commit suicide.
Imagine if someone you loved was saying this. Someone that you cared for and knew your entire life. Suddenly they were saying that they wanted to end their life.

Suicide affects all of the people around you, not just you.
Your parents, your relatives, all the people around you will immediately be affected by your selfish act. (suicide is killing SELF)

Heres some advice.
Since we both agree that you dont WANT to kill yourself, why dont you instead invest some of your stress and worry on someone else?
Try to find someone else in need emotionally or socially and focus on THEIR problems for a while.
You will find that your problems will begin to diminish. I promise.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

*Fairytale* wrote:
it comes to my mind that i was stupid to open this post to realize what you wrote!

heh but you still open it :)

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Zirbel wrote:
THIS post?
It comes to my mind: What do you want to tell with?

I don’t know zirbel
I feel alone.
And
Im feeling that the things that i want is not coming at my way.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

roofdonkey wrote:

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
What’s the first thing that comes on your mind,when you read this post..

:)

The very FIRST thing that came to mind is…

“This person wants to post frivolous posts for the heck of it. (just saying)”

Of course i know!

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (3 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

i’m thinking about a post i made a few years back which started very similarly, except i was asking what came to mind when you heard(read lol) a specific name i mentioned.

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♥ Fairytale ♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:

*Fairytale* wrote:
it comes to my mind that i was stupid to open this post to realize what you wrote!

heh but you still open it :)

and clever to realize your goal to write this.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:

Zirbel wrote:
THIS post?
It comes to my mind: What do you want to tell with?

I don’t know zirbel
I feel alone.
And
Im feeling that the things that i want is not coming at my way.

Maybe you should tell a bit more about, no?

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Dyal offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

I Can make a post like this :

Hey Open this post please.
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Thank you have a good day ! :]

( but i`ll not do this because if do one post go back on the next page and may be that person need help but because of my post he\she will not get that help. :| )

It’s nice if you make a post who inspire people.

but it’s not nice to play games like this.

Hope you understand.
Thank you.

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:

roofdonkey wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
What’s the first thing that comes on your mind,when you read this post..

:)

The very FIRST thing that came to mind is…

“This person wants to post frivolous posts for the heck of it. (just saying)”

Of course i know!

lol
Its not too frivolous now as it turns out.
We are speaking to someone who is considering suicide.

So hopefully the person gets some help on account of your post, mija. ^^

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

Zirbel wrote:

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
Zirbel wrote:
THIS post?
It comes to my mind: What do you want to tell with?

I don’t know zirbel
I feel alone.
And
Im feeling that the things that i want is not coming at my way.

Maybe you should tell a bit more about, no?

I don’t know zirbel
Feeling to lonley and alone.
My mood’s changing..
I wish to cry..
I feel sleep all the time.
And sad and feel like i need to cry.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
that i can barely hold on…that i just wanna give up and die…
that i can’t do this anymore and i’m hoping for a miracle otherwise i’m not going to be able to make it for too long

Listen,I feel sad and very alone this moment,but you need to Head up your head,and look forward,why you want to die? what’s wrong..life is so beautiful my friend,there is still plans for you..If you didn’t make it right now..there is still chance..Yes, miracles well be there..just keep faith and keep strong.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

roofdonkey wrote:

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
roofdonkey wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
What’s the first thing that comes on your mind,when you read this post..

:)

The very FIRST thing that came to mind is…

“This person wants to post frivolous posts for the heck of it. (just saying)”

Of course i know!

lol
Its not too frivolous now as it turns out.
We are speaking to someone who is considering suicide.

So hopefully the person gets some help on account of your post, mija. ^^

You see ;)

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
that i can barely hold on…that i just wanna give up and die…
that i can’t do this anymore and i’m hoping for a miracle otherwise i’m not going to be able to make it for too long

Listen,I feel sad and very alone this moment,but you need to Head up your head,and look forward,why you want to die? what’s wrong..life is so beautiful my friend,there is still plans for you..If you didn’t make it right now..there is still chance..Yes, miracles well be there..just keep faith and keep strong.

http://help.com/post/546629-dear-frie…


Original on YouTube.com

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Anonymous #
9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

roofdonkey wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Thank you,

you know i don’t want to commit suicide, i’m a really strong person, or at least that’s what everyone says, i try so hard, i keep pushing myself and put myself together every day. but lately things got worse and worse by the day and i don’t know how to put myself together anymore, how long i can keep trying, i feel so weak, so empty and lost that i just don’t know what to do anymore, what to do next like in the next minute, hour, day.

Ok, we both agree that you dont want to commit suicide.
Imagine if someone you loved was saying this. Someone that you cared for and knew your entire life. Suddenly they were saying that they wanted to end their life.

Suicide affects all of the people around you, not just you.
Your parents, your relatives, all the people around you will immediately be affected by your selfish act. (suicide is killing SELF)

Heres some advice.
Since we both agree that you dont WANT to kill yourself, why dont you instead invest some of your stress and worry on someone else?
Try to find someone else in need emotionally or socially and focus on THEIR problems for a while.
You will find that your problems will begin to diminish. I promise.

I’ve done that all the times, in fact i’m still supporting a few people and put my problems aside and focus on others’. But you know i’ve been doing it for so long, trying to hide from my own while focusing on someone else’s. It’s not good either, even though i can help them and such in the mean time i’m not helping myself, and i’m awful when it comes to asking for help or letting people help. Mostly because i don’t know what to ask for or how they could help.

I was seeing a counselor and honestly i felt like it didn’t make any difference. All the things she pointed out i already knew, i already figured out, i know the roots of my problems but i can’t turn my world around still.

Zirbel wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
you know i don’t want to commit suicide, i’m a really strong person, or at least that’s what everyone says, i try so hard, i keep pushing myself and put myself together every day. but lately things got worse and worse by the day and i don’t know how to put myself together anymore, how long i can keep trying, i feel so weak, so empty and lost that i just don’t know what to do anymore, what to do next like in the next minute, hour, day.

That’s why you really should ask for professional help — as soon as possible! Don’t wait any longer and see a therapist, right now!

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

There is a need that everyone has.
A need for God in our lives.
God can help you like no one can.
He sees your pain and He sees the tears that fall.
Do you want to know Him?
He sent His Son to die and to take the pain of all mankind for all time so that we might live.
And His spirit lives within those that ask for Him. He is a gentleman and will not force himself on anyone. You have to ask Him to come into your life.

Jesus said:
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

We ALL have burdens to bear in this life. But Jesus said “Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

Would you like to?
Its your for the asking.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I was seeing a counselor and honestly i felt like it didn’t make any difference. All the things she pointed out i already knew, i already figured out, i know the roots of my problems but i can’t turn my world around still.

But you know, it will take some time!
First you should see a professional psychotherapist (not only a counselor!).
Then you have to participate ACTIVELY on the therapy, and you need a lot of PATIENCE!
Psychotherapy is not an instant help, it’s a process which takes time.

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:

Zirbel wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
Zirbel wrote:
THIS post?
It comes to my mind: What do you want to tell with?

I don’t know zirbel
I feel alone.
And
Im feeling that the things that i want is not coming at my way.

Maybe you should tell a bit more about, no?

I don’t know zirbel
Feeling to lonley and alone.
My mood’s changing..
I wish to cry..
I feel sleep all the time.
And sad and feel like i need to cry.

If you like you can shout me.
I’m listening.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Zirbel wrote:

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
Zirbel wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
Zirbel wrote:
THIS post?
It comes to my mind: What do you want to tell with?

I don’t know zirbel
I feel alone.
And
Im feeling that the things that i want is not coming at my way.

Maybe you should tell a bit more about, no?

I don’t know zirbel
Feeling to lonley and alone.
My mood’s changing..
I wish to cry..
I feel sleep all the time.
And sad and feel like i need to cry.

If you like you can shout me.
I’m listening.

thanks zirbel.

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ENAMTHBert offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

Empty

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