boyfriend help: i feel like my boyfriend is not around me when I need him.

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i feel like my boyfriend is not around me when I need him.

He’s always busy and I barely got to see him this week. All cause he needs to instal surveilance camera and take care of other stuff. He usually busy on his days off. But I think days off is where you should take a break and relax and not add more pressure to yourself. BUt then he be helping his friends fix his cars. I mean give yourself a break. YOu could help them but then he would sometimes help them for entire day and I barely get to hang out with him.

When I’m on my period, I want him around me because I always feel tired and I get these cramps and my back hurts. I ask him for a back massage also because I want to see him. But he said when he gets the chance. My period is only a week and when he said that I was like when you get the chance? That sounds like never.

Yesterday I told him my back hurt and I have cramps. MY tooth and tongue hurts really bad because of the dentist. Also i been have issues with my birth control pills. It makes me extremely tired and I hate it. I really despise taking. I’m only talking to prevent pregnancy and stuff and for him. Also for my period since its irregular…

He said that he will bring me food since I can’t chew since I went to the dentist. BUt he said he has to wait for this guy who will sell him a bumper for his car. If he shows up early he will bring me food, if he shows up late then no food. So I said =( u stink. And he was like oh i’m just trying to be nice to you. But in my mind I know I won’t get my food at all. Because he always making me wait and making me all excited and then ends up nothing… I get upset about that.

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Anonymous edited this post 9 months, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

i feel like my boyfriend is not around me when I need him.

When I’m on my period, I want him around me because I always feel tired and I get these cramps and my back hurts. I ask him for a back massage also because I want to see him. But he said when he gets the chance. My period is only a week and when he said that I was like when you get the chance? That sounds like never.

Yesterday I told him my back hurt and I have cramps. MY tooth and tongue hurts really bad because of the dentist. Also i been have issues with my birth control pills. It makes me extremely tired and I hate it. I really despise taking. I’m only talking to prevent pregnancy and stuff and for him. Also for my period since its irregular…

He said that he will bring me food since I can’t chew since I went to the dentist. BUt he said he has to wait for this guy who will sell him a bumper for his car. If he shows up early he will bring me food, if he shows up late then no food. So I said =( u stink. And he was like oh i’m just trying to be nice to you. But in my mind I know I won’t get my food at all. Because he always making me wait and making me all excited and then ends up nothing… I grt upset about that.

Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

is your boyfriend your maid? lol

monkichirmo 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
is your boyfriend your maid? lol

lol!!

in all instances you mentioned, you can mange well enough on your own, just sounds like you want someone to baby you. perhaps your family would be more in place here? spending time together in general is one thing, however it shouldn’t be so he could do things for you(if it happens to be then great, but it shouldn’t be a requirement and/or vice versa). in a different note, in a healthy relationship requires both parties to have a life apart from each other. seems like you like spending your time pouting. you can make yourself some food, drink some midol and put ice on your face. there ya go. don’t let your happiness depend on anyone else.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 2 minutes after post)

Ha ha . . . you posted about this before! Yes, your boyfriend is involved with a lot of people!

You need to get him to “taper off” a bit . . . but don’t becoming a whiny, demanding, clingy girlfriend who tries to make him feel guilty all the time. He DOES need to disengage from much of what he’s doing to make some time for you!

That’s not an unrealistic expectation.

Talk to him without making him feel like two cents. If you can do that, you may win the day!

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