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Whats the ‘important thing about a marriage is-’
There’s a man I love, I’m madly in love with him, we haven’t been together for almost a year, and though we’ve talked about getting back together, I really don’t think we are strong enough to get back to where we were. Since the problemS we had were successful in tearing us apart.
However, there is another guy I have dated. I love him, nothing compares to the love of my ex, but I still love him. We have been though a lot and worked through our issues. When ever I need him he is there, whenever he needs me I am there. I don’t treat him less than my ex, because I know I don’t want to be treated any less because of who I am not. So he gets all of my attention and devotion, even though I don’t love him like I love my ex.
Well now with little hints he has dropped, I think he is going to ask me to marry him. It scares me because I never pictured myself with anyone else like that other than my ex. But then I think, we get along, we work well together, maybe with out the ‘madly in love’ is the key to a successful marriage. I only want to be married once, my ex and I cant seem to get past the issues we have from years ago. Whenever we do put all of this behind us it works beautifully, yet always there is something to bring up the past and were fighting again.
This other guy and I are more like damned good friends who like to do other things. I don’t know if any of this makes sense I know it has me confused
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