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I need help urgently…

So ive been trying to work this out with a girl, and out of no where she calls me tonight saying she needs space and time to think because her ex of 5 years has been texting her and she needs time to think about what she wants to do. She kept saying she felt horrible because Ive treated her so right and perfectly, but its so hard and overwhelming for her right now, so she needs time to think about it…. she was crying and very emotional which showed she still cared about me….I basically broke down when i heard that, and just said that she is risking losing me forever(we were good friends before we dated),I was mad- I don’t know what to do, or what to say…should i text her tomorrow?

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Dalek Karan offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

My dear friend, you have been Dumped, just find another girl and get over it.
This may be your first time; however it will not be your last.
Have a good life……

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

NO NO NO
the words bite me dog face come to my mind
No one should treat you like that
You were nice & her EX is an EX for some reason
She wants to talk she can reach you
don’t waste your time & if she does call / text
be busy that day make it another time
have strength

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The Sherlockian online Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Tell her that you are going to make it easy for her . . . that you’re breaking up with her because she was dallying with her ex while she pretended to be YOUR girlfriend.

Let her fall long and hard and bounce a few times . . . and make sure you are NOT there when she realizes that there were good reasons for her ex to be her ex!

Some people are notorious for this . . . and they need to be taught a hard lesson that they will never forget. Your former girlfriend falls into this category!

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

thank to dr jaja that help me when i was in emotional problem,my man left me because of a little girl out that time i was emotional boarder when i went to my friend working place she calm me down and said i should contact rd jaja,when i contacted him he said he we cast a spell for me and my man we come back in just three days,and he did it for my man was back in that three day i want the whole to hear it what dr jaja has done for me.via i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>.

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The Sherlockian online Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (2 months after post)

What would we do without those spellcasters!

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