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Why do guys like to pat your head?
i use to go clubbing alot last year and from there I met a whole bunch of people and I got really good connections because my brother is a Dj. So they address me as Dj XYZ’s sister.
I knew this promoter before I met him and then he added me on facebook and last month we met at a bbq event and he started talking to me. Keeps laughing and making jokes with me. Then we eventually began texting and he would always ask me to hang out with him and I kindly reject him until yesterday when he asked me to watch a movie and I didn’t wanna be rude and keep rejecting him after all i want to get to know more people and get more connections and get out of the house more.
He invited me to the movies and while we were going up the escalator he pet me on head and then went to his house to play video games and watch some tv and he pet me on the head several times. He sit next to me starts bumping with me with his shoulders. And he would also make faces and then laugh at me. Ever since I met him, he always laughs at me and make fun of me. But why did he pet me on the head? I always been curious bout that because guys always pet me on the head like my guy friends or messes up my hair and some stroke it.
I am short and have big eyes, and I been called cute alot. Is it because I am cute and short that guys just like to pet my head. He didn’t pet his other friend who is a girl. ITs not that I like him or anything. I have boyfriend, but just wanted why he pet my head. Note that I did not hang out with him along but with other friends as I am trying to talk to more people since I am the quiet and shy type which I try my best not to be. So i’m just trying to be more social.
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