friends help: me and this girl have been talking for a good 2 months so far and i have feelings for her and she has feelings for me, (she told me this). - Help.com

You’ve been talking? How do you know her? Have you met her in person? Girls are strange creatures, they play mind games. Dont do what you think she wants you to do, BUT do what you want to do!

like about dating and stuff and just casual conversations through text. i met her through a best friend of mine. i know her in person we have hooked up a couple time. good point i want to ask her out but i dont know when cause of her mind games lol

If she lives near you, make a suggestion to go to a movie or coffee with a group of friends. See where that goes, make an effort to sit near her etc. and then if you really do like each other after hanging out more ask her if she wants more than just a friendship from you. 8))

ive asked her to a movie before and she wanted to go and we cuddled the whole time at the movies ive been at her house many times. ive asked her if she wanted to but she said she wanted to stay friends for now which was like 2 1/2 weeks ago. i dont know about now though and i dont want to throw my self at her and keep asking that question

Just continue to be friends and see if that takes you guys anywhere else. 8))

I’d be right up front and say to her, “If there was a possibility that we could be more than friends, I’d like to take you out. But if you have me in your ‘friend zone,’ we’d be wasting our time. So, let me know.” If she comes up with the “friends” thing again, you’ll have your answer–and you’ll have saved time and money that would have been wasted.

That puts the onus on her, and forces her to get off the dime. If she says, “I don’t know,” just say, “OK, see you around sometime . . . maybe. Goodbye!”

P.S. You have to get fence-sitters off the fence. And the truth is, most girls don’t know what they want. So, if you are bold and forceful, she’ll be less likely to think of you as someone in her “friend zone,” and more likely to think of you as a boyfriend.

And the truth also is that girls don’t respect boys who fawn after them, hoping that they’ll get a “crumb” from them sometime. By getting her to commit either way, you are saving yourself a lot of time, money, effort and grief!