age help: What’s an appropriate age to get married at? - Help.com

whenever you feel like you are truly ready to get married to someone you love as long as you’re over twenty is my opinion.

21, so you can drink at the wedding

actually it should be went you find true love

Actually, in my country the legal drinking age is 18 :D

ok i’d say 20 thru your teens

35

griffin195 wrote:
ok i’d say 20 thru your teens

OOOps i meant in your 20’s
past your teens, you can never be sure
in your teens with homones rushing around

I’m 23 if that helps– not a crazy, hormonal teenager :)

I’d say mid- to late-twenties. By that time you’ve been on your own, you know pretty much how the world works, and you’re young enough–but not too old–to have kids.

if you’re in love if you can afford it
if he/she makes you happy

24!

30!

30 feels a bit old. I want to have at least one kid before 30, for safety’s sake as having children is far more risky at 30 +

Anonymous wrote:
30 feels a bit old. I want to have at least one kid before 30, for safety’s sake as having children is far more risky at 30 +

Haha,but i prefer to get married in 30!

Good Girl wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
30 feels a bit old. I want to have at least one kid before 30, for safety’s sake as having children is far more risky at 30 +

Haha,but i prefer to get married in 30!

whats your favorite color?

Allthemessylove. wrote:

Good Girl wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
30 feels a bit old. I want to have at least one kid before 30, for safety’s sake as having children is far more risky at 30 +

Haha,but i prefer to get married in 30!

whats your favorite color?

PINK.

Depends on how many kids you want to have. I want to have zero. So 35 - 40 for me.

Vilén wrote:
Depends on how many kids you want to have. I want to have zero. So 35 - 40 for me.

But i love kid , its sweet to be mom or dad.

Good Girl wrote:

Vilén wrote:
Depends on how many kids you want to have. I want to have zero. So 35 - 40 for me.

But i love kid , its sweet to be mom or dad.

You do? That’s great! I don’t.

Vilén wrote:

Good Girl wrote:

Vilén wrote:
Depends on how many kids you want to have. I want to have zero. So 35 - 40 for me.

But i love kid , its sweet to be mom or dad.

You do? That’s great! I don’t.

I can’t imagine a person that won’t like a kid .maybe after your marriage u would like to have ONE.

Good Girl wrote:

Vilén wrote:

Good Girl wrote:

Vilén wrote:
Depends on how many kids you want to have. I want to have zero. So 35 - 40 for me.

But i love kid , its sweet to be mom or dad.

You do? That’s great! I don’t.

I can’t imagine a person that won’t like a kid .maybe after your marriage u would like to have ONE.

Imagine it. I don’t want kids. I’m a strong individualist and children will rob me of whatever individuality I have. Plus, they just suck. And cost money.

I’m not even guaranteeing that I’ll get married in the first place.

I totally agree with you Vilen, kids are still a maybe for me, but I absolutely hate it when people tell me I’ll change my mind when I’m older or when I’m married. Maybe I won’t and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

Anonymous wrote:
I totally agree with you Vilen, kids are still a maybe for me, but I absolutely hate it when people tell me I’ll change my mind when I’m older or when I’m married. Maybe I won’t and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

This.

It’s incredibly patronizing to tell others that they’ll change their minds when they grow up.

Exactly, I’m 23, have a degree and a job, and am in a long-term monogamous relationship- I think I’m already grown up. Being married with children doesn’t automatically qualify you as an adult. Having said that, I’m am getting excited about a wedding. The ‘appropriate’ age seems to vary so much. I think I’m going to go with: when I can afford the wedding, as the answer.

depends on personal features –>when you feel you mentally & physicality need someone to share ;)

Anonymous wrote:
30 feels a bit old. I want to have at least one kid before 30, for safety’s sake as having children is far more risky at 30 +

i was 29, my son was born 16 days before my 30th birthday

I think around 25 is a good age. You have had some time working and living on your own. You have had time to figure out who you are outside of your family. I think it is a good age to get married and then wait a year or two before having kids.