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need help with a high school crush…

hey!
okay so i have this guy in school who is with me in my classes & we are somewhat friends, not really good friends but friends. i never thought but i have started liking him & few of my friends know & one of my friends was his friend’s girlfriend (he left & now my crush talks to my friend about him at times).
whenever i look at him & he looks its like we say hi, he asks me questions & u know we just talk….
according to my friend he kind of likes me because he looks at me, listens to me when i talk & just gives me attention & stuff & she also says that he has kind of changed & he acts different around me. he tries to act dumb at times (around me) & he’s just so cute when he talks to me, he looks me in the eyes & all. but i’m not sure i dont know what to do if i tell him how i feel about him if he doesn’t like me back then it would just become an awkward situation but what if he does…… i’m confused & i don’t know if i should make a move or not or how to show him that i want to be with him.
& he’s on the soccer team, more of a jock i’d say & i’m not one of the popular girls or anywhere like his ex-girlfriends but sometimes it seems like he likes me but i don’t know. help please, tell me what to do.

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Positivemessylove 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

wait for him to make a move, because your friends speculation isn’t a whole lot of proof. it sounds like he’s just being polite.

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avidpunk 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Everyone you love in high school will abandon you anyway, don’t invest so much time and effort into them. Just have fun before life gets depressing.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

avidpunk wrote:
Everyone you love in high school will abandon you anyway, don’t invest so much time and effort into them. Just have fun before life gets depressing.

i know right. but what fun is high school without a crush? & i just want to be with someone right now.

Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:
wait for him to make a move, because your friends speculation isn’t a whole lot of proof. it sounds like he’s just being polite.

i told my friend this but she has known him for a long while (2yrs) & he’s actually sweet with people but she says he’s being OVER sweet with me.

Positivemessylove 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

I still say wait for him to make a move, or slowly start to ease in some flirting in your conversation.

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Positivemessylove 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Or a whole lot.

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Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (32 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:
Or a whole lot.

ok thanks actually i don’t think i’ll tell him how i feel about him but i’ll give him signs i guess & i kinda flirt with him already but i don’t think he notices, guys can be so dumb! xD
thanks :)

powerplay3000 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

I know when I was in high school, I was completely oblivious when girls liked me. Maybe it was a little bit of a self-esteem issue, not really seeing it, but whatever. Since you have this strong mutual friend, would it be possible to ask her to say to him something like “I think Anonymous may have a little bit of a crush on you, what do you think?” and put out a more definite feeler than something that can be explained just as reasonably by really liking your perfume and wanting to be around it a little longer?

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Anonymous #
9 months, 1 week ago (15 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Trust me, I think he really likes you and you should as him out. He’s probably crazy about you and wishes you would be crazy about him to

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (6 days, 8 hours after post)

I have been in love with this guy since Freshman year, and i am now soon to be entering my Sophmore year. We both really liked eachother, but for some reason he never wants it to be more than best friends. I don’t know how to get over him… I have tried so many times, but i always fall back into liking him. The annoying thing is he flirts with me all the time, compliments me, tells me he loves me, cuddles with me, and when i finally confront him about it he tells me he only wants to be best friends, and basically denies that he has feelings for me.
Comments would be greatly appreciated.

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