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boyfriend trouble.

my boyfriend is very abusive he beats me up gets mad for no reason and is perverted we been together for almost 2 years i want to break up with him then again i dont because i dont want to go through the same thing and plus i still kinda love him but we havent been talking that much or seeing each other but anyway i like someone else in my camp and the last day is tomorrow but he likes someone else and he used to like me should i ask him out and ifhe says yes break up with my boyfriend? and im only14

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Break up with your boyfriend and do not even think of getting back together with him. Involve your parents. Tell the people in charge of the camp of his abuse.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

you should tell your parents or a teacher that your boyfriend beats you. that’s really messed up. :(

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Shigaku offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (8 hours, 6 minutes after post)

He hits you. He abuses you. You are still with him. Why?

One day you could be injured so badly that you would be in a hospital. “Oh he wouldn’t do that…”

How do you know?

It’s hard, and I know. But break up with him. He should be venting his anger elsewhere, not on you. Don’t hurt yourself anymore, don’t live as his punching bag. Live as yourself.

As stated earlier, involve your parents, friends, whatever is necessary. I wish you the best of luck.

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