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my sis and her bf broke up, how to deal with him leaving.

her and the bf are renting out my basement which makes it kind of odd and hard to deal with. i never knew ’till now that he has anger issues, drinking problems and he’s verbally abusive. they broke up for good. my issue: he paid the rent this month(’till the 5th of next month per contract). during their argument he proceeded to destroy(rip up) the contract who was between him/my sis and my fiance who own the house. he claims he will have someplace to go by the end of the month and since he paid the rent he can rightly stay ’till then. i want him out asap. i say get out now, i’ll give you $400(makes sense, it’s only the 16..the total for the month was $800) and where he goes(or lack there of) is not my problem. however, my sis is ok with letting him stay ’till the end of the month. my fiance does not want to get in the middle as long as he gets the $ that’s owed to him.

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my sis and her bf broke up, how to deal with him leaving. her and the bf are renting out my basement which makes it kind of odd and hard to deal with. i never knew ’till now that he has anger issues, drinking problems and he’s verbally abusive. they broke up for good. my issue: he paid the rent this month(’till the 5th of next month per contract). during their argument he proceeded to destroy(rip up) the contract who was between him/my sis and my fiance who own the house. he claims he will have someplace to go by the end of the month and since he paid the rent he can rightly stay ’till then. i want him out asap. i say get out now, i’ll give you $400(makes sense, it’s only the 16) and where he goes(or lack there of) is not my problem. however, my sis is ok with letting him stay ’till the end of the month. my fiance does not want to get in the middle as long as he gets the $ that’s owed to him.

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9 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

I think it would be best to have your sister stay with you, and avoid him as much as possible. honestly I think that is the only thing you can do.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (18 hours, 54 minutes after post)

you should have made your own copy of the contact. that wasn’t wise leasing on your part.

if a tenant has paid you for the month then you have no right to evict him.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (19 hours, 27 minutes after post)

yes, we have a copy obviously(never said i didn’t)….but thanks :)

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9 months ago (5 days, 19 hours after post)

It sounds as if your sister wants to stay with him. Invite her to sleep on your couch. If she refuses I think if I were you I would be more concerned about her. Also, when the month comes to an end I would evict the ex-boyfriend. Refuse to renew the contract.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

let the guy stay in the basement til the contract ends n ask your sister to stay wid u in ur house after the contract is over just tell him to leave

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

thanks for the tips guys :)

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