Love help: Ive lost my soulmate forever and I dont want to live.

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Ive lost my soulmate forever and I dont want to live.

He left me 2 months ago because I was too immature, messed up in my head (true) and messed up everything like cooking, laundry, etc. He has a 4 yr old so all these qualities were important. I shouldve taken medication (im now on Zoloft and Ativan) and if I had just taken it before he dumped me he never wouldve left. He did love me. He got on his knees and gave me a ring and then a couple weeks later texted me saying he was with someone new.
I will never get over this. I just want to die.

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Zirbel 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Don’t give up, my dear!

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

He sounds like a jerk. If he found someone else just two weeks after proposing to you, he wasn’t genuine to begin with. You deserve someone better, someone who truly cares about you and treats you right and is willing to work with you through your problems. And there are people out there who will truly care about you. This guy wasn’t your soulmate, he was just a selfish jerk. I know that sounds harsh and you probably won’t believe me–I’ve been in a similar situation and it took me a long time to realize the truth.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

My dear Anon, your soul mate doesn’t give you a ring, and then two weeks later TEXT you that he found someone new. Your soul mate doesn’t leave you because you’re a lousy cook, lousy housekeeper or have bouts of depression.

This guy masquerading as your fiance was simply an immature a-hole. You need not analyze this situation any further.

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9 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Agree with the above. Perhaps this guy is the reason you ‘needed’ meds to begin with?

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Text him a sympathy card. “So sorry for YOUR LOSS.” and find a guy who will love you the way you ARE, not the way he wishes you were.

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