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why she killed? by whom? stay calm. life hasn’t finished for you. it’s a temporary depression. you’ll recover your daily life soon. although your daughter is dead, you’re alive. you should live until you can. just trust god. he’ll solve your bad situation. don’t loss hope.
May god bless you and your family.
The easiest way is to live an honorable life, in such a way as to reflect credit upon the fact that you are here father.
Love God, love your neighbor as yourself, and you will see your daughter again.
I think your daughter would want you to be happy. See a counsellor… just because you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Very sorry for your loss x
Hi, this is terrible!
One feels like everything falls apart when this terrible things in life happens.
Although this happens to us during our life time, there is still enough hope lift, enough to live for.
When I think of your situation, you are the father, so you were the root of your daughters existence, she is not your root of existence!
Just like you existed before she were born, and just like it was not your daughters decision to exist, but it was you and the mothers decision to bring her to existence…
You are stronger than this.
Do not make your life dependent on something that you yourself made…you can make new things still.
I’m terribly sorry that happened. :(
Can you get some grief counseling? Is there a support group in your area for other parents who have lost young children? Do you have family nearby you can spend time with?
I know you must be absolutely devestated. But, please, don’t make it into two trajedies, okay?
I am sorry for your loss
we lossed a grandson almost a year ago
I feel your pain
I will pray for you and your daughter
This is one of the hardest things you will ever have to deal with
Know that there are others with you
Lord help this kind and loving father to bear this pain, let him know his daughter is with you now
God Bless and keep you
There is no easy way..
please call a suicide hotline and just talk for a while, if its faster than typing for some people like me, I am homeless a disabled vet and can’t sleep in my 23 yr olds garage I lost my husband June 17 2008 he was bi polar and an alcoholic and almost died 3 times in mar that year
he committed suicide and we had to wait for toxicology to find out, now 4 years later we are all falling apart
it will make it worse for the people you leave behind… family friends
they will want to
everyone who loved him so much, My 19 yr old is out on the street because I have no money to give him. he sold my car and broke my cell phone the va only pays me 389 a month to live on… I just live for today, right now this moment, but I feel your pain Ive thought about it myself…
I still believe in God and I can’t go now, its not time for me yet. My husbands grandfather came to him at near death in mar and told him he still had things to do and he walked out of the hospital and spent his last 2 months at home and out fishing and gaining weight trying to say goodbye…
How was your daughter killed?
Oh,really sorry. But don’t do that.Your daughter will go to heaven what’s more than that? Be patient.If she was killed then try to do something about that…Think about your wife…
Dont do it plz ur daughter wouldn’t want u too she will always b in ur heart and be with you in spirit. Don’t kill yourself ik how u must feel not as much but ik I lost one of my childhood friends nov 30 2010 I think about him sll the time and last Tuesday my friend attemped suicide but text me and said I love u jaz bye and I hurrid upstairs to find her unconcious and mon I tried to killl myself bc of so much **** but now I realized I have too much to loose and so what I’m saying is don’t let this tragedy end ur life when its not. Ur time my friend was only 18 when he died. Ur lil girl loves u and may god rest her soul easily I pray u can’t recover bc u have ppl who care
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