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I’m so angry right now.
Since May we’ve known we were moving in August, and that we would have to find jobs in the new town. My boyfriend walked out of his last job in the beginning of July, blew the rent money for August, asked me to buy him gas and groceries while NOT looking for a new job in either his current location or the area we were moving to.
August 15th was the move in date… and a week before hand he told me he wasn’t moving in with me because he doesn’t have the money for rent. All of his stuff is here, and he is living at his mom’s elder living apartment while he gets a job in a town that is half an hour away to pay for him to move in here. He has no car and expects me do drive down to see him all of the time - on a student budget, nonetheless. He’s also acting like he can’t stand me, but says he wants to be with me.
And I moved in to the new place that is an hour away mostly by myself. I’ve got his dog to take care of. I’m sick from the stress - and was coughing up a lung whilst cleaning our old apartment (he was standing outside talking to the neighbors). Everything is going wrong. Now I found out I won’t get my security deposit back because the dog “ruined” the carpet - when I know for a fact that he did not.
Oh, and on top of all of that, the week before I moved I also had to take care of my needy and incompetent mother because my dad was out of town.
In the mean time, I’m stuck alone with his dog, he’s yelling at me for everything I do and acting like he hates talking to me. I’ve got a fever and a cough, my period came early, my stomach is in knots and I still have to unpack.
And my best friend got engaged today and is very happy. My other friend is engaged and I’m standing up in her wedding next year.
I just need something to go right.
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