man help: I just sent some x rated pictures to a man that I’ve been with for a year and he replied “Oh..my, very cute :P”…cute? - Help.com

i hope you didn’t include your face in said pics.

I think you’re reading too much into semantics. Cute isn’t a bad thing. Of course if you want a second opinion on the pics then just let me know ;)

what were you expecting?

“Cute” is what babies are. It could easily mean something like, “I see our future offspring in you, that’s all I see, babe.” But I don’t know what he really meant, that’s something that is between you and him. Do the two of you normally use ‘cute’ to mean something completely different?

Sure, cute isn’t a very sexy adjective. I’d be pissed too probably. But then I’m a neurotic.

Your probably over-thinking it.

what reaction were you expecting? you could just take the compliment for now, maybe he’s not currently in a situation where he can look at these kind of pictures or make full use of them…

Yeah. Maybe his wife is looking.

LOL!! These replies have been hilarious. I told him “…not 12 sir haha.” & he said “I didn’t mean it like that, I mean I said cute, not adorable” and then I changed the topic. Still mad. UGH!! I’ve never been called cute after showing any man any part of my body. WOW.

i guess he wasn’t impressed. at least it wasn’t a negative response.

Just throwing this out there again, but I’d be happy to offer a second opinion.

monkichirmo wrote:
i guess he wasn’t impressed. at least it wasn’t a negative response.

Yeah but that’s pretty weird given the fact that his ex’s were way less curvy than me (FYI I don’t mean to say I’m fat, I’m toned)

Maybe you are cute and he was the first one to point it out. :)

What if he had replied yeah baby thats hot im whacking off now

That’s what I would have said.

lifelover wrote:
Maybe you are cute and he was the first one to point it out. :)

Baron: Hahah, that was never ideal but that would’ve been better than saying I’m “very cute”!

Brother: You keep making me laugh! Stop! I’m trying to be angry!! Haha

note taken.

Anonymous wrote:

monkichirmo wrote:
i guess he wasn’t impressed. at least it wasn’t a negative response.

Yeah but that’s pretty weird given the fact that his ex’s were way less curvy than me (FYI I don’t mean to say I’m fat, I’m toned)

not sure what that has to do w/ it… if he wasn’t impressed then he wasn’t impressed regardless of body type. there’s nothing wrong w/ being fat(granted it’s not causing health problems). ‘cute’ doesn’t mean you’re not attractive, maybe it’s just not his cup of tea.

He also could easily have been totally stunned by her ravishing gorgeousity and didn’t feel like saying that.

he probably thought it was a suitable comment. im so confused, he said you were VERY cute. thats a good thing. what word is a guy supposed to use then?? i didn’t know that calling a girl cute pisses them off, i’ve been insulting so many girls

Baron Scary wrote:
he probably thought it was a suitable comment. im so confused, he said you were VERY cute. thats a good thing. what word is a guy supposed to use then?? i didn’t know that calling a girl cute pisses them off, i’ve been insulting so many girls

HAHAHAHAHA! Oh my gosh, how funny. I just don’t think its normal to react that way to naked pictures!

Lifelover: I love you, you’re so sweet…you keep tiring to truly convince me its a good thing.

& Monki, you’re probably right. But if so, how could I go on being with someone who doesn’t consider my body “their cup of tea”…yet it would be crazy to break it off because of that…right??

sounds like you want to break up with him anyway, so send me those pictures and i promise that i’ll come up with way better adjectives than “cute”

Anonymous wrote:
Lifelover: I love you, you’re so sweet…

Even that is far more than “cute”, so he probably said that just to minimize his actual more dramatic and embarrassing response.

Ok, send me the pictures, and I will tell you, if “very cute” would be the right rating for them.
:-)

Hahahah, ooh zirbel :)

Thanks for making me smile you guys :)!

:) You should get him to send you such fancy pictures so you can enact vengeance.