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Is my boyfriend trying to make me jealous?

Basically,
I’ve been dating this asian boy (I’m white) for a couple months and at first I was the only girl that mattered but either he decided differently or he is trying to piss me off? Okay, I know I’m not an ugly girl. I’m not trying to sound conceited but I do get a lot of looks & flirted with by boys in person and on Facebook and what-not. My boyfriend compliments me by saying I’m “the perfect girl” which is not true, so I will say “no I’m not” he will say “Well other guys on facebook think so and when we’re walking you get the *Insert check out up and down stare here*”
Well anyway, recently he’s been saying what was mentioned previously but he also stares at other girls INFRONT of me. He actually looked at this one girl, looked back at me and looked back at her. He also has an obsession with a celebrity to the point where he has her tattooed on him (which he got WHILE dating me) He has also done a ton of other sh*t regarding this celebrity which I will not bring up but let me just say we have had an argument about his love for her before but yet he still has her poster (and a bunch of other pretty girls) on his wall & a printed out picture of her he just keeps on his desk as of recently. He will sometimes stare at them in front of me. He will have full-out conversations with other girls (some he has never met) in front of me and hand them his business card and everything. He won’t hold my hand or anything in front of a pretty girl and he always seems to walk fast in front of me or act like he doesn’t even know me in front of pretty girls but whenever a guy is talking/staring at me he is the first to hold my hand and be all over me. Am I crazy or what’s going on?

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Is my boyfriend trying to make me jealous?
Basically,
I’ve been dating this asian boy (I’m white) for a couple months and at first I was the only girl that mattered but either he decided differently or he is trying to piss me off? Okay, I know I’m not an ugly girl. I’m not trying to sound conceited but I do get a lot of looks & flirted with by boys in person and on Facebook and what-not. My boyfriend compliments me by saying I’m “the perfect girl” which is not true, so I will say “no I’m not” he will say “Well other guys on facebook think so and when we’re walking you get the *Insert check out up and down stare here*”
Well anyway, recently he’s been saying what was mentioned previously but he also stares at other girls INFRONT of me. He actually looked at this one girl, looked back at me and looked back at her. He also have an obsession with a celebrity to the point where he has her tattoo (which he got WHILE dating me) He has also done a ton of other sh*t regarding this celebrity which I will not bring up but let me just say we have had an argument about his love for her before but yet he still has her poster (and a bunch of other pretty girls) on his wall & a printed out picture of her he just keeps on his desk as of recently. He will sometimes stare at them in front of me. He will have full-out conversations with other girls (some he has never met) in front of me and hand them his business card and everything. He won’t hold my hand or anything in front of a pretty girl and he always seems to walk fast in front of me or act like he doesn’t even know me in front of pretty girls but whenever a guy is talking/staring at me he is the first to hold my hand and be all over me. Am I crazy or what’s going on?

Anonymous changed the tags on this post: they were "Pretty Girl, boyfriend, Celebrity, Facebook, pretty, dating, Front, girl, hand, guy" 9 months, 1 week ago.

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (10 hours, 13 minutes after post)

he just sounds like a girl-crazy boy, which is weird, because he’s probably older, right? i would find his behavior disrespectful. you’re a beautiful girl and you deserve someone who appreciates you, AND your looks. i don’t agree with relationships where someone’s like “you’ve got a great personality and though you’re not the hottest i’ll go out with you anyway”. being attached to someone makes them more attractive to you, and if he’s still oggling celebrities and babes and porn stars, he doesn’t seem to be that interested in making the relationship something to really last.

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9 months ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

Thank you sweetie :) 3

a wild ozy appears wrote:
he just sounds like a girl-crazy boy, which is weird, because he’s probably older, right? i would find his behavior disrespectful. you’re a beautiful girl and you deserve someone who appreciates you, AND your looks. i don’t agree with relationships where someone’s like “you’ve got a great personality and though you’re not the hottest i’ll go out with you anyway”. being attached to someone makes them more attractive to you, and if he’s still oggling celebrities and babes and porn stars, he doesn’t seem to be that interested in making the relationship something to really last.

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