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I need advice.
I’ve had a boyfriend for about a month and a half. I moved to this new place about 3 months ago, and have met some nice people, but still haven’t established a really solid group of friends, so I feel a little lonely. I like my boyfriend a lot, but have some insecurities. He’s really friendly and outgoing and it makes it hard for me to keep track of him. We’ll be out and all of a sudden he’s just disappeared and it turns out he’s out talking to other people. Which is fine, of course, but some times I get jealous, especially when it’s other girls. For the most part, he does a really good job of introducing me to people as his girlfriend, but yesterday morning we ran into his ex, and he just said hi to her and chatted for a sec, gave her a hug and said hi to her boyfriend but didn’t introduce me or anything. When we walked away, he was like do you know who that was, and I said no, and then he told me that was his ex, the one who kind of screwed him over. I didn’t really say anything. Another insecurity I have is that sometimes when we’re out together I feel like we don’t really talk, and then some one else comes around he’s all chatty. It makes me feel like he thinks I’m boring or something. Another thing that worries me is that he works late nights a lot and I don’t hear from him. I think if I were out still, I’d text him or give him a quick call to say hi, but he doesnt. He tells me he loves me though and that he thinks about me all the time and he’s really affectionate, I don’t know if I’ve just got the new relationship jitters or what…any thoughts?
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